Being judged unfairly

Well as the title says, being judged unfairly seems to be happening pretty regularly on here every now and then. I have an illness, it can get quite serious if I do not look after myself properly or attend my appointments for treatment. I have k**ney failure which requires me to have dyalisis three times a week. It leaves me feeling tired and it does strange things to my body. I itch uncontrollably without treatment and unfortunately it is a side effect of some of the meds I’m taking. This year I have had to be admitted three times to hospital as I’ve collapsed at home, the police had to b… Read more

Posted by redhead123 5 months ago 3

My scarred body

Well as the title says, my scarred body, not a nice thing, all lumpy and bumpy from pregnancy and my love of food. I don’t do pics of my body as it frightens me looking at it, never mind anyone else. My ex husband used to say the scars were like battle scars, as I fought hard to stay alive. I had a k**ney removed, it was poisoning my body and it was dangerously large. I have a scar down my chest, yes, my boobs are no longer perfect, but my heart works ok now. I even have a c section scar but no one sees that now as lower pics are not done anymore. I used to be an avid users of live cams when t… Read more

Posted by redhead123 3 years ago 16

Content

Ok so I’ve been on this site for eleven years, a long time both as married and single, the chat has pretty much stayed the same and it’s just as busy as always. Lately I have been experiencing messages from guys who, for some reason have decided not to upload content of their own bits and pieces. While I agree that people have a choice here, I find it pretty appalling for a man to have a go at me because I won’t add him, it’s simple, no content of yourself, there will be no add. Put simply, if you want to chat with me, you are required to have pictures and videos of yourself, be it with a… Read more

Posted by redhead123 3 years ago 12

A variety of questions I get asked often ... and t

Why are you on a porn site? Because I enjoy looking at cock and watching videos Would you like to meet me? No thanks, this is just a place to have a chat and let off steam Why won't you answer me? You probably either insulted me or we have nothing in common Do you like women? I love women but I would not fuck one What do you do when you watch porn? I do my ironing and tidy up (dumb question) Would you ever consider fmf? Not at all Mfm? Possibly Are you going to post more pics and vids ? Probably when i have stuff worth seeing If you can think of any other… Read more

Posted by redhead123 6 years ago 11

Does it matter?

I'm not sure to be honest... being natural is the way but flirty is always expected. If you do become flirty does it change opinion? Natural is honest, you talk to someone and get to know them but is it really who they are? Hidden agendas are always in the back of your mind, and you are most likely right to assume what is in theirs. It's hardly a blow to the head to discover that the only time they want you is flat on your back, or him on his with his eyes on stalks. Do you continue with the flirting, does it make you a bad person or, are too desperate to care? We all try to find… Read more

Posted by redhead123 6 years ago 11

Being here offline!

I would love the option sometimes to be on here but be showing as offline or busy. I don't always wanna chat but I try to reply if someone sends me a msg. I like to watch vids without seeing my msgs getting higher, and a few people complaining cos I'm not answering them. First rule, I'm here for me, no one else. If I don't answer your msg straight away, I could be chatting elsewhere, watching a movie, not logged off, or simply fallen asleep. Anyone else have the same idea?… Read more

Posted by redhead123 6 years ago 23

I'm forever blowing men off!

I'm forever blowing men off Pretty cocks are waiting there They get so high Spunk gets in my eye Then like my interest Their cocks fade and die Fortunes cum far too quickly I have looked everywhere I'm forever blowing men off With their cocks sticking in the air… Read more

Posted by redhead123 6 years ago 13

Boooobs!

If I take a pic, just a normal one, no squeezing them together or in a bra, how many would actually like them ? They are bigger than they were, but thats just mother nature and having a baby.… Read more

Posted by redhead123 7 years ago 44

So...whats going on ?

I've been a member for a few years now, and it's always made me think about the different age ranges of men here. What do they want, who do they want to chat to and when do you know when to quit? First there are the guys in their 20s, eager to please and happy to bare just about anything and everything they do. Not shy in saying what they want, and seem to prefer older women. Is it for the experience or just because they prefer that? Next there's the dirty 30s, happy to talk but not much else. This age range is dangerous as they lead you into a ride you know you shouldn't be on. I… Read more

Posted by redhead123 7 years ago 26

My First Year is Nearly Done!

True story Well, as the title suggests, my first year is nearly complete, as a mother to my daughter. That's right, Red had a baby 7 days before Christmas Day 2015. At my age it hasn't been easy, not through any health issues, but its been so tiring, I mean really, so very very tiring. Women my age don't have babies, we are not designed to, or so I thought. My daughter has brought so much love into my home, along with my sons, who found it really hard at first, as did I. I had a really good relationship with a guy on here, but, he found it a bit hard to take in when he found out, I… Read more

Posted by redhead123 7 years ago 10

How do you cope?

Well, as the title suggests, how do you cope with things, life in general, sexual frustration, admiration and sometimes, the fear of the unknown? We all have sexual frustration, why else would we be here lol, but sometimes it can be so bad that we make silly mistakes, say the wrong thing, or even turn to another for a desired effect. Some people would say its wrong, others would agree with the knowledge that all of us are here for really the same thing, to have fun in this secret society, to find a person who clicks with us like no one else can, and to have a great time doing it. I have… Read more

Posted by redhead123 7 years ago 7

{{ABC.....}}

Lets give this a go A braced chill descends, ever formed. Grappling hearts intimately joined heavily, kissing loins masking needs, open passion quells rampant sex. True unique visual warmth, xrays your zen :) An outlet has been found, I can talk to myself again, nice xx… Read more

Posted by redhead123 9 years ago 9

would you

Age: Location: Last time you had sex: Favorite position (s)? Do you think I'm hot? Would you have sex with me? lights on or off? Would you have to be drunk? Would you take a shower with me? Would you leave after or stay the night? Do you like cuddling afterwards? What's my best feature? Condom or skin? Will u supply ur own condoms or should I? Do you like oral sex? Do you like anal sex? Sex on the first date? Would you kiss me during sex? Do you think I would be good in bed? Would you use me as a booty call? Do you like fore play?… Read more

Posted by redhead123 10 years ago 26