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Greetings all, An XHam acquaintance suggested I write a blog re my current journey with prostate cancer - and given what I am learning as I experience this I think I will. My objective with this is simple - if my story helps another with their own experiences or even better motivates anyone to have the necessary checks and avoid what I am going through - then jobs done as the saying goes. So - I am away on a trip about 6 hours from home and in the evening I go to the bathroom with a huge urge to pee but no matter how long I stood there I just couldn't. Its a really weird feeling - pic… Read more

Things have been hectic lately - I havent finisged writing about the last trip away yet this past weekend - I had another wonderful experience. My slut has a girl friend (k**s at same school) and would you know we met up at the October play party held by Uber here in Sydney. This friend (I shall call her S for obvious reasons) is rather a strange one. She prefers women for emotional relationships (in itself not strange) yet she prefers rough sex from men for her physical edification (again not strange) however, everything in between can be up for grabs.........I really dont know how to ex… Read more

I promised someone I would write about my past weekend experience - so here goes. I had promised the newbie slut (mentioned in previous posts) that I would accompany her on a weekend away to a girlfriends 40th party. It was a good 6 hours drive so off we went early Saturday morning. Party clothes packed (check), refreshments (check), toy / tool bag (check) - and the most important bag of all of course.... We were booked into a very private cabin up in the mountains so the after birthday activities were assured in a quiet private peaceful environment. I required slut to keep some implem… Read more

I am currently seeing a newbie sub. Whilst I have known her for a number of years, it has only been recently that for a whole lot of reasons we started seeing each other. What has been a challenge for me is bringing her up to speed with what and who I am. At this point do I really need to say the obvious - that for anyone in the BDSM lifestyle per say - its not something you can just bring up at any dinner party conversation is it? I work as a senior exec and I travel a lot for work. C level negotioations make up a lot of what I do........I say this to make the point, I move in a lot of… Read more

Not sure anyone is even going to read this - no fuss its probably more about me just seeing my thoughts written. Is that the curse of a right brained alpa male? As I said in my profile, I am a dominant and one of the responsibilities of being such is the careful planning, the thinking through all the scenarios and the foresight needed to (1) conduct safe sane & consenual experiences (2)bring to life the fanatasies and thoughts my partner has and me & (3) make these occasions mutually beneficial, enjoyable, edifying and of course, incredibly fulfilling and enjoyable. I revel in the think… Read more