If anything about me disturbs you try another guy, I don't stalk or get "in-your-face" and it feels like a time waster to deal with other's suspicions and paranoia. Don't bother me if you have no favorite porn flicks. I like fun edgy women that are here for the porn and if you've never even tried weed you probably are not sexually edgy either.
I'm a pretty straight forward guy not much is hidden, I'm just not an easy man. When faced with obsessive paranoia, drama I just walk away. I refuse to spend a lot of time living "drama" that gets in the way of living. Women who are angry with past baggage etc., please just pass me by, it saves so much time.
It's not about age it's about enthusiasm even so women don't get into their own sexuality until later. I especially enjoy dates where sex isn't the only theme, isn't forced into the time available and happens because it cannot be otherwise.
I like open relationships and have occasionally met people from Hamster in real life. The only time I c2c is just before an agreed upon meeting in real life. Like amateur porn best (real people with real bodies) but the nature of Hamster has changed so much in the past couple of years that my preferences are meaningless.
In the San Diego Zoo they had a Lion area. It had several male and female lions. The females mated but they preferred only one of the males to the exclusion of the others. As time passed females came and went but the pride still would only mate with the old guy. (Now understand a male lion lays his load like 50 to 60 times a day, every day while a lioness is in heat.) The preferred male got older and older, finally becoming so unsteady he could no longer perform sex adequately, he kept sliding off to the side. The females solved the problem by having 2 females (one on each side) prop him up so that he could mount a third, without slipping off. Yes, he would still lay his load some 50 to 60 times a day. (I think this is how the concept "Heart of a Lion" developed.) This went on for many seasons, with many females, producing many cubs and was observed by the keepers many many times.
The old lion has since died and just like females everywhere the lioness' pragmatically are now doing the other males many of whom are his cubs.
Things I like:
Women with some substance, without selling their panties, or flicks, or personal sites.
Lusty, bright and clever women with a streak of freak in them looking for something different.
Nipples and clits, ....both hard, swollen and attached to real people.
Role Playing and laughter
Sleeping till noon on a rainy Sunday morning
Talkers, screamers and unembarrassed moaners.
Weekend sex with someone who I want to spend all the next day just hanging out.
I enjoy.... making breakfast for my sleep over guests... then coffee and an on-line paper...
I like women who enjoy being women, and know having an orgasm is on them (either by selection of partner or personal behavior) and they work at it.
Women moving away from vanilla who fantasize about black men and appreciate being taken with some authority till exhausted.
Women with enthusiasm who are comfortable in their sexuality and willing to explore it.
That about covers me, .. Oh .... I like women that smell good. Partial to Chanel #5 ...
Well educated, and make an excellent living. Work from a home I designed myself. Live alone, generally date freely. A guy that actually likes women. Love to take photos of real women being themselves. Photos that try to capture the edges of their personality.
Lets face it, most people come here to play at that which they will never have the courage to be in their real life. Living is making the play real.
I try to be completely honest with everyone, refusing to waste my time with deception. Besides it makes chat so much easier, only a single set of books.