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Why does a male bisexual currently living in Argentina who is looking for a female pansexual, whatever that is; send us a friend request???? Wouldn’t that be like us requesting friendship from a female homosexual currently living in Nepal that is seeking a unisexual preop transsexual?… Read more

It is funny how people will state on their profile that they just possibly answer all the PMs that they get? Let’s look at that narcissistic outlook. They make up a profile that invites others to it. Ok, nothing wrong with that. It draws people to it and people will make a comment. No reply? Strange. They will come on xhamster once maybe twice a year, well if you don’t go to your home mailbox but once or twice a year, you will find bucket fulls of letters! Lol! Duh. You can customize your profile to not receive any PMs then you won’t have to “respond” to any because none will be there. Oh, but… Read more

No, I am not a racist...well I don’t think I am? Treat and respect everyone the same. It is your actions and words that bring you down a notch or two or three, not your color. So, let me get to the meat of this post. As you have read or figured, we are a white couple. Naturally we have more experience with white people. Xham is great because of the variety and so interesting to learn about different cultures and practices in regards to sex. Have spoken to people from Australia to India, from South Africa to Canada. Just fascinating!! Listening to the sexual proclivities of Latinas and Asian wo… Read more

I saw a movie starring Leonardo Di Caprio where he was salesman in the 50’s. He seduced this one housewife and it made me wonder about something. Back in the 50’s, most of America was like this. The husband went to work 9 to 5 and the wives stayed home. There had to be but I would like to hear stories about how housewives would get together for girl girl time during the day while their husbands were at work? It had to happen? k**s went to school and you can only clean and cook and go to the store for so long. These women were just as horny as all women are so it had to happen??? Does anyone ha… Read more

We have noticed something interesting on here. When you look at couples seeking others you will find a couple seeking another couple, the male half seeking another girl to join them, or the male half seeking another guy for his girl or another guy for himself but we have never found a couple where the girl is seeking another girl to join them?? Why? Perhaps there are but don’t advertise? You are not going to find anyone seeking like that, lol. Wife says that most women just can’t handle the dynamic. Is it that or something else? Perhaps girls just can’t trust their men to not respect the gift… Read more

I think India has to be the country with the most sexual women. Most of the comments on profiles come from “women” from India. When you do a search, there are so many and so many have facial pictures of themselves. They seem so friendly because they are all seeking males. Poor things, they don’t have any Walmarts because they are always asking for things. They are so open providing their phone numbers, email addresses, and WhatsApp info. They also seem so lonely because they are always asking to chat. Pictures posted are very revealing and risqué. Their sexual interests are varied and expansiv… Read more

You know the longer I am on here, the more I laugh. I am male so I understand the male psyche because that is who I am. Females, well I am trying to learn, lol. I do know that women put in emotions in everything. It is not what you said, it is how you said it. I do understand that women have sex drives as well as men do. Sadly, society has conditioned women to suppress their sexual desires or at the very least, you don’t talk about it in public. Perhaps one on one with your bestie..... maybe you can compare husband performance? But my wife and her bestie don’t have conversations like that. So… Read more

I thought I would use this format to seek some understanding. On this website are men, women, and couples so a large audience. I read in the news that this actor “came out” and announced she was gay. The world applauded her courage and strength. She is no longer denying her “true feelings”. She has a son and a husband and she is moving her life down a different path. She no longer is living a lie. I then did some research and discovered more and more celebrities have done the same thing. I can imagine normal people like me have also done the same thing but since they are not celebrities, the w… Read more

For those of you that are reading this, thank you. On a porno site, it is much better to watch videos or look at pictures than reading. So for you to take the time, I appreciate it. Now that I am in my mid 50’s and we have done a lot sexually in our marriage, I was thinking one day...what if? What if I went back in time to when I was 13 and just starting to masturbate. And instead of being shy and timid, as most k**s are at that age, I decided to embrace my sexuality. Most girls at that age would not even dare get naked, lol! I think I would have gone about the neighborhood and offered lawn… Read more

I am not hating, just exasperated! I just don’t get people on here. This is a sex site, I get that. You can watch porn and get aroused, I get that. You can also read stories and look at pictures, check. You can make a profile also which basically means you are social and inviting others to contact you. If you don’t want to be contacted, then disable the PM function. If you don’t, you are telling the entire xham world that you are open to contact. You accept PM but get pissed off when you come online monthly and have so many?? Turn it off!! I get that some on here, mostly males, have ruined it… Read more

Not a new observation, i am sure you have come to the same conclusions yourself. As i skim past all the thumbnails of porn out there, sometimes i see a....cringy picture. I am not being judgmental or anything. There are some actors in porn that just dont look appealing. I know beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that but i just saw one clip where this young beautiful woman uas a threesome with a couple. Now the couple....well lets just say to me, are not a handsome couple. So here is this porn actress who has to go thru the motions of teasing, flirting, wanting, becoming aroused, kiss… Read more

I just have to crack up in laughter when i read some of the titles for some of the pictures and videos posted on here. SPOILER ALERT A naked girl. Simple enough picture on a porn site, right? Titled "My Neighbor". Same picture a few days later after a bunch of comments, "hot neighbor", "you must go next door a lot", etc etc. This time the picture is titled, "My Sister". Even more comments, lol!! I hate to kill the mood for all of you but, it is a picture of a naked woman. She is pretty and a photographer in Bohemia probably gave her 50 dracmas for her to undress and stand there.… Read more

I just have to crack up in laughter when i read some of the titles for some of the pictures and videos posted on here. SPOILER ALERT A naked girl. Simple enough picture on a porn site, right? Titled "My Neighbor". Same picture a few days later after a bunch of comments, "hot neighbor", "you must go next door a lot", etc etc. This time the picture is titled, "My Sister". Even more comments, lol!! I hate to kill the mood for all of you but, it is a picture of a naked woman. She is pretty and a photographer in Bohemia probably gave her 50 dracmas for her to undress and stand there.… Read more

On the new Xhamster, I discovered that there is a "blocked members" section. I had 15 blocked members!! Shit, I don't remember doing all those?!?!?! So, I clicked on the section. Oh, yes, now I remember, these are all weirdos! People who were so nasty or sarcastic full of evil and hatred that I blocked them usually after they had blocked us after leaving a comment. I remember one, I had made the comment, "what a great profile you have! Just wondering if you ever managed to fulfill your desires that you have listed?" Just in a message to her, nothing more. Just striking up a conversation and pa… Read more

Sadly, it seems that xham is morphing into a site with only 2 types of women. Professional ones who are selling everything from underwear to videos and women who have been beat up so much by horny men, that it has turned them hard and crusty. Shame on the guys who have done this to so many girls. I dont blame the entrepreneurs, everyone has to make a buck right? And i dont blame the women who are highly defensive. I have seen this site go from a very social place to "leave me alone!!!" Sometimes change is not a good thing.… Read more

I read a lot on xham. I read stories, bolgs, profiles, etc. I come across lots of words and sentances that are just wrong. Mispelled words, strings of words put together which make no sense, you know what i mean. And i am not talking about typos, everyone has those. I just want to reach out and message the person who wrote, "...and i dont want to see your dick picture, everyone guy has won" won? won? The correct word is one not won. Does anyone else feel that way sometimes? I also want to message people who want comments on their pics before they add you as a friend but lock up their… Read more

Xhamster is a great venue for porn! It has pics, stories and lots of vids! One stop shopping. What is also very good is that you can make a profile and connect with others. Very cool. It also caters to women, it is not a male dominant site. Anyone can make a profile and can set up barriers and safe guards to make themselves feel safe and comfortable. One can simply ignore someone or block them if they do not get the hint to leave them alone. Wife feels very safe on here, as do I. There are a lot of postings out there, mostly from women, about jerky guys not leaving them alone or bei… Read more

Does anyone know how to search for a screen name on here? Do you have to be a premium member? You can try to just scroll and find the screen name but they are not in alphabetical order so it takes forever. You cannot use the search function because it only lets you search vids, stories, blogs, pics and if the user has not submitted any, no results. Is there a way to search for someone's screen name?… Read more

We, but manly i, are very curious about something. We see a common thread, if you follow one guy on here, you will find him leaving pick up lines on multiple female and even couples profiles. He will go from one to another profile laying it down. Almost like a guy in a bar going from girl to girl with lines and flattery in the hopes that one of them goes home with him. We have both been to bars, the Mrs has been hit on but has never gone home with a bar fly. The Mr has danced and bought drinks for ladies but has never gone home with a woman picked up in a bar. Maybe we are not too good a… Read more

We are very interested in this "Pizza Delivery" impulse. A woman will order a pizza and when it gets delivered, she opens the door naked. What happens next goes in different directions. Our question is for both men and women: Guys. Have you ever gotten a girl to do this and what happened? Girls. Have you ever done this and what happened? This just seems orchestrated.… Read more