and fetishes:
About me
I enjoy sex. Not just the fucking, but sex beyond the vanilla realm. Helplessness becomes an aphrodisiac if administered properly. I am more interested in my partners experiencing the pain and pleasure of a sexual liaison. Pain, if administered properly, can be orgasmic.(ladies have you ever had your nipples clamped with a small vibrator dangling from the chain while your clitoris is stimulated manually...feather or brush...or electronically?). On the other hand, orgasmic pleasure can become overwhelming if experienced long enough or with intensity. My late wife would beg me to whip her tits to be released from the constant stimulation while bound on our motor bunny, or our 1st sex machine, the sybian. Have been widowed for several years, but i still miss her screams, groans, pleadings and the muffled sounds of pleasure and pain while gagged.
Then, there is the after care. Ointments applied. Hugs given. Assurances given before, during, and after the fact. Ladies, I am not an average middle aged man looking for sex.