Lifestyle femdom
Who am I?
I am perverted, kinky and perfectly normal at the same time.
About me
I am a lifestyle Domme not a pro. No plan to switch/slave either. I don’t train an owned sub or share them. Subs that are physically fit, mentaly strong, respectful and kind are more likely to get my attention. I’m very picky with who I train and I’m very possessive when I get one.
I use this website to share the videos that I took while using submissive men. My earnings through selling clips and recieving gifts helps me continue this activity and encourages me to keep this website afloat.
Please note that I do not do sessions. But you are welcome to look around, you perv!
My story
I’ve been into lifestyle femdom since 2006. And luckily, it’s easy enough for me to pinpoint why dominating men turn me on. My love for femdom was triggered by fond memories from way back. Way before I knew about sex.
I used to play tag with a classmate a lot. We were both 7 during that time. I remembered my shoelaces would often loosen up and I get upset because I get hurt when I run. So I told the boy that I will never play tag again because of my shoelaces and the fact that I can’t do them properly. The boy ended up tending to my shoes before and after we play. And I enjoyed every second of that service. From then onwards, with the addition of other happy memories in high school and college, my kinks developed.
I have a long list of kinks that needs to be fulfilled from time to time. Think of it as foreplay or an essential thing for me to get off. Here are some of them:
Bondage, behavior modification, and obedience training, boot licking, chastity, cross-dressing and sissy training, cum feeding, discipline, dog and pony training, enema, face sitting, feet worship, humiliation, milking him dry, objectification, orgasm control and denial, pegging, sensory depravation, spitting, strap-ons, toilet and bathroom control, verbal humiliation and degradation, watersports and some more that I will add later.
My kinks can be seasonal, depending on how I feel and the situation. There are moments where I do chastity mainly, there are moments where I’m all about milking and cum feeding, and there are moments where I want to have a pet. These could happen one at a time, or all at once.
Again, it’s my call. If it’s not on my list, it means it doesn’t turn me on or make me cum. I will not do it if it doesn’t fill my needs.
Because of my petite stature, I prefer fitted and customized clothing and shoes. I love to wear leather, satin, silk, and at times, latex. I like to look innocent, at times, like a supervillain. I aim to look respectable with a timeless sense of fashion all the time. I absolutely hate it when somebody tells me to wear something that I do not like.
I am a woman that you could take to a family dinner. I know how to behave, I am respectful, and polite, appreciate humor, and I am not a know it all. I am that lady that your mom wants you to date. Just don’t tell her that I treat you like an object behind closed doors.
I am not into public training. I do however subtle domination tactics to keep my ”object of affection” on track. Like making my object wear a slutty female underwear and a chastity device during a date or discreetly spitting on food and drinks the object consumes. We can act like we attend the church every Sunday but I’ll make sure that you know where your fucking place is.
I call it ”training” since it’s not just about role play but teaching somebody to act the way that pleases me or turns me on. I have to admit that my preference behind closed doors is very one-sided and selfish. Since I could be giving, kind, and understanding on the vanilla side, I could not be arsed of what makes your dick hard. I do not even need it to be hard. Do what I said or learn how to do it.
With constant training a sub/object/however the fuck I want him to be will know what my commands are in one short sentence, a flick of a finger, or the look of my eyes. As time goes by behind closed doors, my patience gets shorter and my attitude is meaner and my rules more strict. That is because if I train a sub long enough, I would assume it knows how to do things properly.
Since I mentioned that I am selfish, I do not want activities that will make me constantly worried or disgusted. That will remove the euphoria from my system. I do not like hardcore breathplay, blood, choking, and scat.
For me, gaining the respect and trust that I want has to be earned. Being into femdom does not mean that I have the grounds to be a bitch randomly. My mantra is to treat people with respect and kindness regardless of their preferences and gender. It is not my style to act like a god or order people around out of the blue just because I know that they are submissive and I am dominant. Besides, experiencing my dominant side means getting a lot of my attention. Which means privilege, which means not anybody can have it.
