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Femdom

Preface 6

Introduction 12

One The Male Submissive Nature 28

Two The Superior Sex 39

Three The Latent Power of Eve: 54
The Spirituality of Female Domination

Four The Seduction of the Female Dominant Nature 68

Five The Greatest Sex Organ: 81
The Psychology of Female Domination

Six Love and Punishment: 95
Female Domination through Discipline

Seven Victorian Discipline and Domination 105

Eight f***ed Feminization, Sissification and Domestication 118

Nine Role Reversal in the Bedroom: 134
Female Domination through the Strap-On

Ten Sex is for the Woman’s Pleasure: 148
Orgasm Denial and Enf***ed Male Chastity

Eleven Cuckolding: Female Liberation or Promiscuity? 168

Twelve Mental Domination: Humiliation Play 191

Thirteen The Three Faces of Eve: Goddess, Mistress and Queen 214

f******n Age Regression and Female Authority Figures 228

Fifteen Leather Sex: Fetishism and BDSM 241

Sixteen Reality Check: Staying Grounded with FemDom 268

Appendix A The Psychoanalysis of the submissive male 281

Appendix B Resource List 289

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The Submissive Nature of Man

Why did this scene have such a profound effect on some men? After all,
it was intended to be a comedy and the scene was meant to be funny.
This scene was powerful because the woman represented loving female
authority to these men. She was sweet and kind in public, but a real Bitch
at home. She broke her male down through D&S but then was nurturing
toward him once he was broken. Again, a short scene in a movie but to
the submissive male like Steve, it triggered his desires and touched him
at his core nature.

The reason FemDom stories, pictures and scenes in movies shake men at
their core is because they touch men at their core. Their submissive
nature becomes unleashed. It was there all the time but they never knew
it was there until they discovered the world of Female Domination.
Female Domination did not invade their brains through pop culture,
literature or the media. No, their submissive desires were there all the
time but those desires needed to be freed. The analogy I like to use is as
follows.

A man could have a million dollars in his bank account, but if he did not
know the money was there, he would never spend it. He would live his
life thinking he was poor when in fact he was rich the entire time. Then
if one day out of the blue, someone contacted him and said, "Hey, you
have a million dollars in your back account", a light would come on and
he would get excited and he would go and use that money. Did that
money come out of left field and invade his bank account? No, it was
there all the time but he needed a revelation that it was there.

That is what happens concerning Female Domination. A man’s
submissive nature is there all the time, birthed into him and cultivated by
c***dhood and adolescent experiences but it is lying dormant. Then out
of the blue, he comes across literature about Female Domination or a
scene in a movie that portrays Female Domination, and that submissive
nature comes alive. Now it will dominate his thoughts but not from
without but from within. It is perfectly natural for a man to desire to
submit to the female gender. Once he has that revelation, that revelation
frees his submissive nature and brings it to the forefront of his thoughts
and desires. It happens to men over and over again. Most of the time it
happens when a male comes into puberty or is a teenager or when he
becomes a young adult. But it also happens later in life in some males
because they have not yet experienced that trigger until later in life.

Alan is a successful lawyer who counseled with me about his submissive
desires toward women. Alan had submissive desires as far back as he
could recall. When he was in his early twenties and had his first
apartment, he would be overcome with the desire to be dominated by a
woman (usually triggered by film, television or literature). Alan did not
understand this desire but once it came upon him, he would seek out
FemDom magazines or even mainstream magazines with dominant
looking women. Alan would place himself in bondage and fantasize that
a woman was whipping him or sexually dominating him. He would stand
his mattress against the wall of his bedroom, tie himself up against the
mattress (leaving one hand free), and he would gaze upon the pictures of
the magazines that he had cut out and taped to his bedroom wall. Alan
would then slap his erect penis over and over with his free hand,
pretending that it was the woman from the picture who was slapping
him.

Kevin is a financial advisor. He is successful, handsome and happily
married. He confessed to me that when he was an adolescent, a picture of
a sexy woman in a magazine would make him feel submissive. Kevin
did not desire to have sex with her but rather he wanted her to dominate
him. He remembers taking his b*****r’s Sports Illustrated swimsuit issue
or one of his mother’s beauty magazines and he would flog himself with
his belt (in the privacy of his bedroom with the door locked and the
stereo turned up high) while he fantasized that it was the beautiful
woman in the magazine that was flogging him. Why? Where did this
desire originate from? He had loving parents who never abused him. It
was as if he was born with this desire.

Phillip is a teacher and he recalls similar experiences in his c***dhood.
He would sneak his father’s Playboy magazines into his room and
pretend that the naked models were dominating him. He even recalls the
time he took a carrot out of his parent’s refrigerator and took some
Vaseline and penetrated his own rectum with the lubricated carrot as if it
were a dildo. He fucked himself pretending that it was the beautiful
Playboy model that was dominating him. Phillip was only ten years old
at the time.

James had a reoccurring dream when he was only six or seven years old.
In this dream, Peter Pan was a redheaded female and she would come to
his room, take him by the hand, fly him up into the clouds and lay him in

this pink cloud made of a sticky Jello-like substance. In his dream, James
would struggle to get free but he could not move. The female Peter Pan
would stare at him and enjoy watching her male captive struggle until he
eventually surrendered to her. James was only a c***d but even as a c***d,
he desired to be dominated by a woman. He did not seek this out. He had
never viewed pornography or read any FemDom literature. He was an
innocent boy, yet the desire to submit to the female gender was birthed
within him and found its expressions through this dream.

Peter Pan was played many times by women on both television and the
stage. Sandy Duncan played Peter Pan for years. Red hair represents
dominance, as many redheaded women are aggressive and feisty. The
cloud represents a state of subspace. The color of the cloud, pink,
represents the feminine. The Jello substance represents bondage and
fetishism. James knew of none of these things as a c***d yet he had this
reoccurring dream.

James recalled another dream he had as a c***d. In this dream, he was a
patient in a hospital bed and this redheaded nurse came to him and
removed all of her clothes. She then climbed on top of him and sat her
bare bottom on his face. He could not move and he struggled to get free
but to no avail. He finally surrendered to her and he felt at peace.

James is a spiritual man who grew up in a Christian home. Later in life
he married a Christian woman who had an out-going personality. He
confessed to her about his submissive desires and after struggling with
the concept of Female Domination, she finally embraced the lifestyle and
took control over James and her marriage. Her name is Kathy and she is
a redhead. She also once played Peter Pan in a school play and she now
works as a nurse. A coincidence? Perhaps but Kathy and James like to
think that Female Domination was their destiny.

Sometimes the desire to be dominated by a woman can become extreme
and occupy a man’s thoughts to the point where he becomes
unproductive in life. Jeremy experienced this when his submissive nature
was triggered from reading an article in an Adult magazine. Jeremy
explains.

“Back in 1982, I was a freshman in college and I read an article in Club
magazine titled the “Kalmann Diaries”. It was a story about a

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Alan is a successful lawyer who counseled with me about his submissive
desires toward women. Alan had submissive desires as far back as he
could recall. When he was in his early twenties and had his first
apartment, he would be overcome with the desire to be dominated by a
woman (usually triggered by film, television or literature). Alan did not
understand this desire but once it came upon him, he would seek out
FemDom magazines or even mainstream magazines with dominant
looking women. Alan would place himself in bondage and fantasize that
a woman was whipping him or sexually dominating him. He would stand
his mattress against the wall of his bedroom, tie himself up against the
mattress (leaving one hand free), and he would gaze upon the pictures of
the magazines that he had cut out and taped to his bedroom wall. Alan
would then slap his erect penis over and over with his free hand,
pretending that it was the woman from the picture who was slapping
him.

Kevin is a financial advisor. He is successful, handsome and happily
married. He confessed to me that when he was an adolescent, a picture of
a sexy woman in a magazine would make him feel submissive. Kevin
did not desire to have sex with her but rather he wanted her to dominate
him. He remembers taking his b*****r’s Sports Illustrated swimsuit issue
or one of his mother’s beauty magazines and he would flog himself with
his belt (in the privacy of his bedroom with the door locked and the
stereo turned up high) while he fantasized that it was the beautiful
woman in the magazine that was flogging him. Why? Where did this
desire originate from? He had loving parents who never abused him. It
was as if he was born with this desire.

Phillip is a teacher and he recalls similar experiences in his c***dhood.
He would sneak his father’s Playboy magazines into his room and
pretend that the naked models were dominating him. He even recalls the
time he took a carrot out of his parent’s refrigerator and took some
Vaseline and penetrated his own rectum with the lubricated carrot as if it
were a dildo. He fucked himself pretending that it was the beautiful
Playboy model that was dominating him. Phillip was only ten years old
at the time.

James had a reoccurring dream when he was only six or seven years old.
In this dream, Peter Pan was a redheaded female and she would come to
his room, take him by the hand, fly him up into the clouds and lay him in

this pink cloud made of a sticky Jello-like substance. In his dream, James
would struggle to get free but he could not move. The female Peter Pan
would stare at him and enjoy watching her male captive struggle until he
eventually surrendered to her. James was only a c***d but even as a c***d,
he desired to be dominated by a woman. He did not seek this out. He had
never viewed pornography or read any FemDom literature. He was an
innocent boy, yet the desire to submit to the female gender was birthed
within him and found its expressions through this dream.

Peter Pan was played many times by women on both television and the
stage. Sandy Duncan played Peter Pan for years. Red hair represents
dominance, as many redheaded women are aggressive and feisty. The
cloud represents a state of subspace. The color of the cloud, pink,
represents the feminine. The Jello substance represents bondage and
fetishism. James knew of none of these things as a c***d yet he had this
reoccurring dream.

James recalled another dream he had as a c***d. In this dream, he was a
patient in a hospital bed and this redheaded nurse came to him and
removed all of her clothes. She then climbed on top of him and sat her
bare bottom on his face. He could not move and he struggled to get free
but to no avail. He finally surrendered to her and he felt at peace.

James is a spiritual man who grew up in a Christian home. Later in life
he married a Christian woman who had an out-going personality. He
confessed to her about his submissive desires and after struggling with
the concept of Female Domination, she finally embraced the lifestyle and
took control over James and her marriage. Her name is Kathy and she is
a redhead. She also once played Peter Pan in a school play and she now
works as a nurse. A coincidence? Perhaps but Kathy and James like to
think that Female Domination was their destiny.

Sometimes the desire to be dominated by a woman can become extreme
and occupy a man’s thoughts to the point where he becomes
unproductive in life. Jeremy experienced this when his submissive nature
was triggered from reading an article in an Adult magazine. Jeremy
explains.

“Back in 1982, I was a freshman in college and I read an article in Club
magazine titled the “Kalmann Diaries”. It was a story about a

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masochistic man that was tortured and dominated by a wealthy sadistic
woman. This story contained some very intense and vivid details about
how this woman whipped and abused this man. She had a sound proof
room where most of this took place. When I read this story, something
went off on the inside of me and from that moment, I became obsessed
with female domination and sadistic women.

The thing that I found the most bizarre yet exciting in the Kalmann
Diaries was how this woman trained this man to be her human toilet. She
called it Immense Body Service (IBS) or something like that. The
description was so disturbing and yet so sensual and exciting. This
woman would always relieve herself in this man’s mouth each night
before she went to bed and then she would beat his balls. Like I said, she
was very sadistic and this excited me to no end.

My life took a most unusual turn from that day. I was studying to be a
computer programmer in college but I never finished getting my degree.
I became so obsessed with female domination and the subject of sadistic
women that my schoolwork and my social life suffered. I purchased every
magazine and book on the subject that I could find. I was use to buying
an occasional Penthouse or Club magazine for around 3 dollars a piece
but now I was buying 8 and 9 dollar fetish and female domination
magazines by the score. I bought videos and 8mm movies and I roamed
from adult bookstores to old paperback exchange bookstores looking for
any kind of books about sadistic women dominating men. The more I
read, the more my appetite grew for female domination. I spent days
upon days and weeks upon weeks fantasizing about being a masochistic
male to a sadistic woman.

I went through my entire savings that my father had given me for my
education. Once I was broke, I wrote some computer software and sold
them for income. I worked as little as possible to live and to finance my
obsessive habit of indulging in female domination. Most of my time was
spent searching for literature about female domination and seeking out
the sadistic woman of my dreams.

I joined Fetish and S&M groups, I attended fetish parties in California
and New York, and I placed hundreds of personal ads in kinky contact
publications. I met some interesting people and had a few wild
encounters but I still had not found my dream woman.

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Then I answered an ad that I found in the contact section of one of the
fetish newspapers. It was from a woman and all it said was something
like, "Sadistic girl seeks sincere male to torture". I had answered similar
ads before but they usually were just a professional Dominatrix trying to
add to her clientele. This time, however, was different. After some letter
writing and one very long phone call, I met this woman at a public bar.
Her voice sounded so sweet and innocent on the phone so I didn't think
this woman was as at all as she had advertised. When she came over and
sat down at my table in that bar that night, I thought I would faint right
there. She was beautiful and very dominant. She was the very fulfillment
of my fantasies.”

Jeremy went on to experience his own “Kalmann Diaries” with this
woman only to find that reality was nowhere as enjoyable as the fantasy.
In fact, the reality was the opposite and left Jeremy feeling empty and
totally unfulfilled.

“After I spent a week with this woman, I drove home and collapsed on
my bed, a totally broken mess of a man. I wept and I shook and I just
about had a total breakdown. I had no idea what day it was. I had
stripes, welts, and deep bruises on my body from her whippings. I was ill
to my stomach (from the IBS) and it would take me weeks to get my
digestive system and bowels back to normal. Emotionally, I was a
disaster. I never considered suicide or anything like that but I felt like I
had totally wasted my life. I had thrown away my educational
opportunity and wasted my money to pursue this obsession and now that
I had experienced it, I was left unfulfilled and totally broken.”

Fortunately, Jeremy got his life back on track, enrolled in a community
college and got that degree in Information Technology. However,
Jeremy is still seeking for submissive fulfillment. He no longer wants a
woman to abuse him but he does desire to find a woman who will
dominate him with loving female authority. His negative experience with
the sadistic girl did not alter his desire to be in submission to a woman.
Jeremy is wiser but still captivated by Female Domination.

Each of these men experienced the powerful desire to submit to a female.
Something happened at different times in their lives that triggered this
desire and that trigger opened them up to the world of Female
Domination. For some men, that trigger happened in their c***dhood. For

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Then I answered an ad that I found in the contact section of one of the
fetish newspapers. It was from a woman and all it said was something
like, "Sadistic girl seeks sincere male to torture". I had answered similar
ads before but they usually were just a professional Dominatrix trying to
add to her clientele. This time, however, was different. After some letter
writing and one very long phone call, I met this woman at a public bar.
Her voice sounded so sweet and innocent on the phone so I didn't think
this woman was as at all as she had advertised. When she came over and
sat down at my table in that bar that night, I thought I would faint right
there. She was beautiful and very dominant. She was the very fulfillment
of my fantasies.”

Jeremy went on to experience his own “Kalmann Diaries” with this
woman only to find that reality was nowhere as enjoyable as the fantasy.
In fact, the reality was the opposite and left Jeremy feeling empty and
totally unfulfilled.

“After I spent a week with this woman, I drove home and collapsed on
my bed, a totally broken mess of a man. I wept and I shook and I just
about had a total breakdown. I had no idea what day it was. I had
stripes, welts, and deep bruises on my body from her whippings. I was ill
to my stomach (from the IBS) and it would take me weeks to get my
digestive system and bowels back to normal. Emotionally, I was a
disaster. I never considered suicide or anything like that but I felt like I
had totally wasted my life. I had thrown away my educational
opportunity and wasted my money to pursue this obsession and now that
I had experienced it, I was left unfulfilled and totally broken.”

Fortunately, Jeremy got his life back on track, enrolled in a community
college and got that degree in Information Technology. However,
Jeremy is still seeking for submissive fulfillment. He no longer wants a
woman to abuse him but he does desire to find a woman who will
dominate him with loving female authority. His negative experience with
the sadistic girl did not alter his desire to be in submission to a woman.
Jeremy is wiser but still captivated by Female Domination.

Each of these men experienced the powerful desire to submit to a female.
Something happened at different times in their lives that triggered this
desire and that trigger opened them up to the world of Female
Domination. For some men, that trigger happened in their c***dhood. For

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Then I answered an ad that I found in the contact section of one of the
fetish newspapers. It was from a woman and all it said was something
like, "Sadistic girl seeks sincere male to torture". I had answered similar
ads before but they usually were just a professional Dominatrix trying to
add to her clientele. This time, however, was different. After some letter
writing and one very long phone call, I met this woman at a public bar.
Her voice sounded so sweet and innocent on the phone so I didn't think
this woman was as at all as she had advertised. When she came over and
sat down at my table in that bar that night, I thought I would faint right
there. She was beautiful and very dominant. She was the very fulfillment
of my fantasies.”

Jeremy went on to experience his own “Kalmann Diaries” with this
woman only to find that reality was nowhere as enjoyable as the fantasy.
In fact, the reality was the opposite and left Jeremy feeling empty and
totally unfulfilled.

“After I spent a week with this woman, I drove home and collapsed on
my bed, a totally broken mess of a man. I wept and I shook and I just
about had a total breakdown. I had no idea what day it was. I had
stripes, welts, and deep bruises on my body from her whippings. I was ill
to my stomach (from the IBS) and it would take me weeks to get my
digestive system and bowels back to normal. Emotionally, I was a
disaster. I never considered suicide or anything like that but I felt like I
had totally wasted my life. I had thrown away my educational
opportunity and wasted my money to pursue this obsession and now that
I had experienced it, I was left unfulfilled and totally broken.”

Fortunately, Jeremy got his life back on track, enrolled in a community
college and got that degree in Information Technology. However,
Jeremy is still seeking for submissive fulfillment. He no longer wants a
woman to abuse him but he does desire to find a woman who will
dominate him with loving female authority. His negative experience with
the sadistic girl did not alter his desire to be in submission to a woman.
Jeremy is wiser but still captivated by Female Domination.

Each of these men experienced the powerful desire to submit to a female.
Something happened at different times in their lives that triggered this
desire and that trigger opened them up to the world of Female
Domination. For some men, that trigger happened in their c***dhood. For

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others, it happened in their adolescent years or teenage years. For some
men, they did not experience such a psychological trigger until they were
young adults. But somewhere and at some time, an event occurred that
touched them at their core and unleashed a sexual desire to submit to
women. Are these men rare? Hardly!

One need to only look at the growing profession of the Dominatrix to see
how many males are searching for the experience of being dominated by
a woman. Today there are literally thousands of websites where women
are offering to dominate men in person or over the telephone. And more
are coming on-line all the time. The supply is growing because the
demand is growing. There is a real societal evolution that is occurring as
the male desire to be dominated by the female is increasing at a rapid
rate. Men will travel great distances and spend large amounts of money
to find submissive fulfillment at the hands of a dominant woman.

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Woman was created as much superior to man as the name she has
received is superior to his. For Adam means earth, but Eve is translated
as life. And as far as life is to be ranked above earth, so far is woman to
be ranked above man. (Henricus Cornelius Agrippa, “Declamation on
the Nobility and Preeminence of the Female Sex”, 1529)

Why do physically stronger males who live in a patriarchal world have
this desire to submit to the so-called weaker sex? Is it sexual? Are men
so captivated by the beauty of the female that they feel inferior?
Sexuality does play a role. Men have feared the beauty and sexuality of
women from the beginning of human history. That is why most religions
have tried to cover up women and install man-made ordinances to keep
women clothed conservatively. Man knows that he cannot resist the
beauty of the female so the only way he can stay in control is to keep the
female covered in conservative and unflattering clothing.

Be it Christian denominations that require women to wear a covering for
their heads and forbids them to wear make-up or Muslim religions that
require women to wear veils and dress in clothing that covers their entire
bodies, religion fears the sexuality of women and places burdens on
women because men cannot control their sexual thoughts and urges.
Women are mysterious to men and men marvel at the beauty of the
female. Women give off a sexual energy that men cannot resist.

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Men also fear women beyond the sexual. Men have beaten down women
and passed laws to keep women as second-class citizens for centuries.
Why? If women were truly the weaker sex, there would be no need to
mandate their dress or forbid them the same rights as men (such as the
right to vote). Oppressive laws and customs to keep women in a
subservient position suggest that it is not natural for women to be the
submissive sex. If it were natural for men to be the dominant sex, there
would be no reason for men to have oppressive laws and customs to keep
women as second-class citizens. History is filled with examples of men
suppressing women in order to maintain a patriarchal society. Yet, deep
down men are fascinated by the female, they admire the female and they
desire to submit to the female. What is clear is that men can only become
the dominant sex by enforcing oppressive laws and customs against
women. It is not natural for man to be the dominant sex if he has to put
so much effort into keeping women oppressed. As these artificial laws
and customs of a patriarchal society are removed, women will naturally
rule. Deep down, men realize this.

Society has mistaken the softness and the gentleness of women for
weakness and submission. Likewise, society has mistaken the toughness
and the macho ways of men for strength. Men are only stronger
physically. Women possess the real strength, which is Intellectually,
Emotionally, Spiritually, and Sexually. Unfortunately, most women do
not realize this due to centuries of being told they were the weaker sex.

Are women the weaker sex? The following data is from an article (The
Weaker Sex) by Maggie Jones that appeared in the March 16th 2003

edition of the New York Times.

“Men start out ahead: 115 males are conceived for every 100 females.
But it's downhill from there. The male fetus is at greater risk of
miscarriage and stillbirth. Overall, more newborn males die than
females (5 to 4). Sudden infant death syndrome is one and a half times as
common in boys as in girls. Mental retardation afflicts one and a half
times as many boys as girls. As teenagers, boys die at twice the rate of
girls. Men are 16 times as likely as women to be colorblind. Men suffer
hearing loss at twice the rate of women.

The male hormone testosterone is linked to elevations of LDL, the bad
cholesterol, as well as declines in HDL, the good cholesterol. Men have

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fewer infection-fighting T-cells and are thought to have weaker immune
systems than women. Men have a higher death rate from pneumonia and
influenza than women. By the age of 36, women outnumber men. Men
ages 55-74 are twice as likely as women to die of heart disease. In the
United States, men are twice as likely to die from parasite-related
diseases (in part, some speculate, because their greater average size may
offer parasites a bigger target). Stroke, cancer, diabetes, heart disease
and accidents -- all among the top causes of death -- kill men at a higher
rate than women. American men typically die almost six years before
women do. By the age of 100, women outnumber men eight to one.”

Here are some biological facts that are undeniable when one looks at the
research. Women have better senses (smell, touch, taste, and sight).
Women tolerate pain the best. Pound for pound, women are in fact
stronger thus men are physically stronger only because of their overall
size advantage. Women have greater flexibility and endurance. Women,
as a rule, eat healthier. Women are biological superior (and complex),
less susceptible to certain diseases and they live longer.

So much for the weaker sex. But that is biological, what about
intellectual? Are women more intelligent? Studies show that the human
male brain is, on average, approximately ten percent larger than the
female brain. However, certain brain areas in women contain more nerve
cells. Women have a larger corpus collusum, the group of nerve fibers
that connects left and right hemispheres in the brain. The part of the
brain that allows us to think is known as “gray matter”. Researchers
wanted to know if women have as much gray matter as men. It was
proven that women have 55.4 percent gray matter, vs. 50.8 in men. Men
listen with only one side of their brains, while women use both,
according to information on brain imaging presented in November 2002,
at the 86th Scientific Assembly and Annual Meeting of the Radiological
Society of North America (RSNA).

Here are some facts about a woman’s intellect. Studies show women do
better in memory tests. Women have better language and communication
skills. As we will see, women have more success in small businesses and
women are making better managers, directors and CEO's. Women use
more areas of their brain. Girls mature faster than boys, from potty
training to emotional development. As we will also discover, women

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