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BDSM check List

Anal Play- Curious is a Hard limit
Beating (General) Yes
Beating - Canes Yes
Acts in which one partner is beaten with a cane. Yes
Beating - Crops
Acts in which one partner is beaten with a crop. Yes
Beating - Floggers
Acts in which one partner is beaten with a flogger. Yes
Beating - Hairbrushes
Acts in which one partner is beaten with a hairbrush. Curious
Beating - Hard
Acts in which one partner is beaten hard. Yes
Small Limit Yes (Asthma may kick or may not)
Beating - Paddles
Acts in which one partner is beaten with a paddle. Yes
small Limit Yes (Asthma may kick or may not)
Beating - Soft
Acts in which one partner is beaten softly. Yes
Beating - Spanking
Acts in which one partner is beaten with a hand. Yes
Small Limit Yes (Asthma may kick or may not)
Beating - Straps
Acts in which one partner is beaten with a strap. Yes
Small Limit Yes (Asthma may kick or may not)
Beating - Whips
Acts in which one partner is beaten with a whip. Curious
Small Limit Yes (Asthma may kick or may not)
Beating Location - Back
Beating based acts that focus on the back as a target. NO
Hard Limit already have some spine damage from work and pregnacy.
Beating Location - Bottom
Beating based acts that focus on the bottom as a target. Yes
Soft Limit (Asthma may kick or may not)
Beating Location - Chest
Beating based acts that focus on the chest or breasts as a target. Yes
Hard Limit Yes Do not like it, I can say its more of a punishment.
Beating Location - Feet
Beating based acts that focus on the feet (usually the soles) as a target. Yes
Hard Limit Yes I hate my feet beat.
Beating Location - Genitals
Beating based acts that focus on the genitals as a target. Yes
Soft Limit (Asthma may kick or may not)
Beating Location - Legs
Beating based acts that focus on the legs as a target. Yes
Hard Limit Yes Can not stand this
b********y
Sex with a****ls. NO Will not do...
Biting
Acts involving biting one partner with the teeth of the other. Yes
Blindfolds
Acts in which blindfolds are placed over one partner's eyes to remove that sense (and often heighten others). Yes I love it i get more pleasure out of it.
Body Modification - Branding
Burning the body, often with a specific design, to leave a permanent mark or scar. Hell NO
Body Modification - Piercing, Permanent
Putting an object through a part of the body for permanent adornment. Maybe
Body Modification - Piercing, Play
Exploring the concept of body piercing but in a manner that is temporary. Maybe
Body Modification - Saline Injection
Injecting saline in to a part of the body to temporarily engorge it. NO
Hard Limit
Body Modification - Scarification
Deliberately causing scars, often through cutting the skin, for adornment. No
Hard Limit
Body Modification - Tattooing
Adorning the body by permanently applying ink under the skin. Maybe
Bondage (General)
Binding or restricting some or all of the body. Yes I love it
Bondage - Breast
Binding or restricting the breasts. Yes
Bondage - Cuffs
Binding or restricting the body (usually the wrists) with [hand]cuffs. Yes
Bondage - Genital
Binding or restricting the genitals. Yes
Bondage - Heavy
Heavily binding or restricting the body, usually to the point where no, or next-to no,
movement is possible. Yes
Bondage - Intricate
Intricately binding or restricting some or all of the body. Yes
Bondage - Light
Lightly binding or restricting the body. Usually more symbolic than actually restrictive. Yes
Bondage - Locks
Bondage that involves locks and keys. Yes
Bondage - Prolonged
Binding or restricting some or all of the body for prolonged periods of time. Yes
Bondage - Sleeves, Arm
Restricting the movement of the arms by placing them in a confining sleeve. Curious
Bondage - Sleeves, Leg
Restricting the movement of the legs by placing them in a confining sleeve. Curious
Bondage - Spreader Bars
Restricting the movement of the legs by connecting them to either end of a bar, usually forcing them open. Yes
Bondage - Stocks
Restricing movement by placing the wrists and neck (though may involve ankles) through a set of stocks. Maybe
Bondage - Strait Jackets
Binding or restricting the torso and arms by placing them inside a straight jacket. Curious
Bondage - Suspension
Binding or restricting someone so they are suspended above the ground. Curious
Bondage - Suspension, Inverted
Binding or restricting someone so they are suspended above the ground, upside-down. Curious
Hard Limit Yes
Bondage - Whole Body
Binding or restricting the whole body. Yes
Bondage Material - Chain
Binding or restricting the body, or parts of, with chain. Curious
Bondage Material - Leather
Binding or restricting the body, or parts of, with leather. Yes
Bondage Material - Rope
Binding or restricting the body, or parts of, with rope. Yes
Bondage Material - Saran Wrap
Binding or restricting the body, or parts of, with saran wrap (clingfilm). Yes Love it
Bondage Material - Tape
Binding or restricting the body, or parts of, with [usually adhesive] tape. Yes
Breath Play
Also called Asphyxiation. Acts involving restricting or cutting off the supply of oxygen. Yes
Hard Limit Yes (Asthma may kick or may not)
Catheters
Inserting a tube in to the urethra to collect urine. NO Hard Limit
Clothespins
Using clothespins to pinch parts of the body. Yes
Soft Limit
Clothing - Chosen For
Having your clothing choices made for you, usually without the ability to appeal. Yes
Clothing - Corsets
Wearing corsets which control the shape of the waist and hips. Curious
Clothing - Full Head Hoods
Wearing hoods that cover the entire head, leaving only small holes for vision, breathing, etc. (if even them). Curious
Clothing - Harnesses
Wearing clothing that harnesses the body without necessarily covering it. Maybe
No Essential Curious
Clothing - High Heels
Wearing high-heeled shoes. Yes
Hard Limit Yes
Clothing - Lingerie
Wearing women's lingerie. Yes
Clothing - Masks
Wearing masks that cover the face. Maybe
Clothing - Uniforms (General)
Wearing uniforms that have a given significance. Yes
Clothing Material - Leather
Clothing made out of, or involving, leather. Yes
Clothing Material - PVC
Clothing made out of, or involving, PVC (the shiny plasticy material). Maybe
Clothing Material - Rubber
Clothing made out of, or involving, rubber or latex. Curious
Collars - Private
Wearing a "slave" collar in private. Yes
Collars - Public
Wearing a "slave" collar in public. Yes
The act of crawling on all fours to denote submission. Yes
Cutting
Deliberately cutting the skin. Maybe
Hard Limit Hell yes it a hard limit
Dilation - Anal
Deliberately stretching the anus open. Curious
Hard Limit
Dilation - Vaginal
Deliberately stretching the vagina open. Yes
Discipline
Submitting to, or receiving, the [often corporal] discipline of another. Yes
Hard Limit Yes at time or (Asthma may kick or may not)
Drinking - bl**d
Drinking bl**d. No
Drinking - Semen
Drinking semen. Yes
Drinking - Urine
Drinking urine. Hell no
Electricity
Using electricity for sensation or pain. Maybe
Enemas
Applying liquid (traditionally warm water) in to the lower intestine, via a tube. Often to induce uncontrolled, or hard to control, excretion. Maybe
Hard Limit Yes
Examination - Physical
Having your body physically examined and, often, appraised. Sometimes this includes medical examination roleplays though, here, that is listed as Roleplay - Medical. Yes
Exhibitionism - f***ed
Exposing your body to others, nominally against your will, at the will of another. Yes
Exhibitionism - Voluntary
Willingly exposing your body to others. Yes
Face Slapping
Slapping the face, usually with an open hand, to cause pain or denote position. Some times
Fisting - Anal
Placing an entire hand (the term "fist" is often an exageration) inside the anus. Curious
Hard Limit Yes I never had anything bigger then my dildo for long periods of time.
Fisting - Vaginal
Placing an entire hand (the term "fist" is often an exageration) inside the vagina. Yes
Food - From Body
Eating food from another person's body. Either eating it directly from them or using them as a platter. Maybe
Food - From Hand
Eating food directly from another person's hand. Yes
Gags (General)
Devices used to limit, or prevent, verbal communication. Yes
Hard Limit Yes (Asthma may kick or may not)
Gags - Ball
A type of gag that uses a ball to effectively block any verbal communication. Yes
Hard Limit Yes (Asthma may kick or may not)
Gags - Bit
A type of gag that uses a bar that goes across the mouth, much like a horse's "bit". Yes
Hard Limit Yes (Asthma may kick or may not)
Gags - Ring
A type of gag that uses a ring to f***e the mouth open while providing access to the, now undefendable, mouth. Curious
Hard Limit Yes (Asthma may kick or may not)
Gags - Tape
Using adhesive tape across the mouth to create a gag. Yes
Given Away (General)
Being given, at a partner's whim, to another person, usually temporarily. Yes
Hand Jobs
Pleasuring someone else's genitals with your hand. Yes
Heterosexuality - f***ed
Sexual acts with members of the opposite sex, nominally against your will. Yes
Heterosexuality - Voluntary
Sexual acts with members of the opposite sex, willingly. Yes
Homosexuality - f***ed
Sexual acts with members of the same sex, nominally against your will. Yes
Homosexuality - Voluntary
Sexual acts with members of the same sex, willingly. Yes
Humiliation - Private
Acts in which you are humiliated, degrated, or shamed, in a private setting. Yes
Humiliation - Public
Acts in which you are humiliated, degrated, or shamed, in front of others. Maybe
Humiliation - Verbal
Acts in which you are humiliated, degrated, or shamed, through either the words of someone else (such as name calling) or your own words. Yes
Hard Limit Yes can be on what you say
Including Others
Acts in which other people, from outside your immediate relationship, are included. Yes
Kneeling
The act of kneeling to denote submission. Yes
Leashes
Wearing a leash, attached to a collar (or other convenient point). Yes
Lecturing
An exposition of a given subject for the purpose of instruction or reprimand. Yes
Licking
Using your tongue on another person's body [or, often, anything they require]. Yes
Massage
Rubbing another person's body for their relaxation. Yes
Masturbation - f***ed
Pleasuring your own genitals, with your hand, nominally against your will. Yes
Masturbation - Voluntary
Pleasuring your own genitals, with your hand, willingly. Yes
Nipple Clamps
Placing clamps on the nipples to cause pain. Yes
Hard Limit Yes Cant stand them they kill
Nipple Play
Acts that focus on the nipples. Yes
Hard Limit Yes They kill
Nipple Weights
Applying weights to the nipples to stretch them, generally to cause pain. Yes
Hard Limit Yes they kill
Nudity - f***ed
Periods of time spent without clothing, nominally against you will. Yes
Nudity - Voluntary
Orgasm - On Command
Having to orgasm on the command of another person. Yes
Orgasm Control
Giving control of when and how orgasms are experienced - and when they are not - to another person. Yes
Orgasm Denial
Losing the right to have orgasms for an [often protracted] period of time. Yes
Pain (General)
Acts involving physical pain. Yes
soft limit (Asthma may kick or may not)
Pain - Heavy
Acts involving a very large degree of physical pain. Yes
Soft Limit (Asthma may kick or may not)
Pain - Light
Acts involving some physical pain, yet without too great an intensity - being more symbolic than serious. Yes
(Asthma may kick or may not) Soft Limit
Phone Sex
Having sexually explicit phone conversations, usually involving performing sexual acts at the same time. Yes
**** - Fantasy
Acts that explore being sexually used, nominally against your will, by another person. Yes
**** - Fantasy, Gang
Acts that explore being sexually used, nominally against your will, by more than one other person. Maybe
Recorded Scenes - Photographs, Private
Having photographs taken of you, either naked or indulging in a sexual act, for private viewing only. Yes
Recorded Scenes - Photographs, Shared
Having photographs taken of you, either naked or indulging in a sexual act, to be shared with others. Yes
Recorded Scenes - Video, Private
Having video taken of you, either naked or indulging in a sexual act, for private viewing only. Yes
Recorded Scenes - Video, Shared
Having video taken of you, either naked or indulging in a sexual act, to be shared with others. Yes
Roleplay (General)
Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles. Yes
Roleplay - Age
Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles based on being a different age (such as babies or naughty young girls). Curious
Roleplay - Education
Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles based on a scholastic teacher/student setting. Curious
Roleplay - Interrogation
Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles based on interrogations where one person is the interrogator and the other the subject. Curious
Roleplay - k**napping
Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles based on one partner being k**napped. Yes I really want to try this
Roleplay - Medical
Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles such as Doctor/Patient. Curious
Roleplay - Prison
Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles based on the prison world such as Sadistic Jailer/Vulnerable Inmate Yes
Sensation Play (General)
Acts involving the senses and strong sensations. Yes
Sensation Play - Deprivation
Acts involving depriving the subject of their senses (often to heighten the remaining ones). Yes
Sensation Play - Fire
Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by fire and heat. No is afraid of it
Sensation Play - Hair Pulling
Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by having hair pulled. Yes
Sensation Play - Hot Wax
Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by having hot candle wax dripped on to or applied to the body. Yes
Sensation Play - Ice
Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by using ice or other cold items on the body. Hell Yes bring it
Sensation Play - Needle
Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by using needles on the body, either scratching with them, or poking them. No am afraid of this
Sensation Play - Suction
Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by having suction applied to the body. Maybe
Sensation Play - Teasing
Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by teasing the body. Yes
Sensation Play - Tickling
Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by tickling the body. Yes
Soft limit i may pee my self or my Asthma may kick or may not.
Serving (General)
Serving another person in specific ways, putting their pleasure ahead of your own. For example, a maid or a sexual servant. Yes
Serving - Art
Serving another person, putting their pleasure ahead of your own, as a (usually immobile) piece of artwork such as a statue. Yes
Serving - Dancer
Serving another person, putting their pleasure ahead of your own, as a dancer. For example, a belly dancer or stripper. Yes
Serving - Following Orders
Serving another person, putting their pleasure ahead of your own, as they give you specific formal orders to follow. Yes
Serving - f***ed
Serving another person in specific ways, putting their pleasure ahead of your own, nominally f***ed against your will. Yes
Serving - Furniture
Serving another person, putting their pleasure ahead of your own, as an immobile piece of furniture. For example, on all fours as a table or a footstool. Curious
Serving - Housework
Serving another person, putting their pleasure ahead of your own, performing household chores. Yes
Serving - Sexually
Serving another person, putting their pleasure ahead of your own, in whatever sexual way pleases them. Yes
Sex - Anal
Sexual intercourse involving a penis entering your anus. Maybe
Sex - Cunnilingus
Sexually stimulating the vagina with a mouth/tongue. Curious
Sex - Denial
Going without sex, or sexual gratification, often at another person's command. No it would kill me
Sex - Fellatio
Sexually stimulating the penis with a mouth/tongue. Yes
Sex - Group
Sexual intercourse with more than one partner. Yes
Sex - Penetration, Double
Sexual intercourse in which two orrifices (mouth, vagina, anus) are filled. Yes
Sex - Penetration, Triple
Sexual intercourse in which three orrifices (mouth, vagina, anus) are filled. Mayb
Sex - Rimming
Sexually stimulating the anus with a mouth/tongue. Hell no
Sex - Threesome
Sexual intercourse with two other people. Yes
Sex - Vaginal
Sexual intercourse involving a penis entering your vagina. Yes
Sex - Vanilla
Traditional sexual intercourse, without involving any kinks. Yes
Sex Toys - Beads
Having a string of connected beads (or balls) inserted in to your anus or vagina and then pulled out. Yes
Sex Toys - Butt Plugs
Wearing a "plug" inserted in to your anus. Yes
Hard Limit Yes
Sex Toys - Dildos
Using and/or being penetrated with a non-vibrating artificial phallus. Yes
Sex Toys - Eggs
Variously known as Ben-Wa Balls, Love Eggs, etc. Two balls made to be vaginally inserted which vibrate when you move or are battery powered to vibrate. Yes
Sex Toys - Public (Under Clothes)
Going out in public with a sex toy (such as a butt plug) in your body, under your clothing. Yes
Sex Toys - Strap On
Using and/or being penetrated with an artificial phallus that fastens about a partner's waist. Yes
Sex Toys - Vibrators
Using and/or being penetrated with a vibrating toy, usually an artificial phallus. Yes
Shaving - Body
Removing all traces of hair below the neck. Yes
Shaving - Genital
Removing all traces of hair from the genitals. Yes
Showers - Golden
Urinating on another person. I dont know if i will ever do this
maybe Curious
Speculums - Anal
Using a medical tool to dilate (stretch open) the entrance to the anus, providing access within. Curious
Speculums - Vaginal
Using a medical tool to dilate (stretch open) the entrance to the vagina, providing access within. Yes
Swapping (Partner)
Sex between two or more couples where members of each couple exchange partners and have sex with them. Yes
Voyeurism
Watching someone, often without their knowledge, in a situation with sexual connotations. Yes
Worship - Boot
Worshiping the boots of another person. Maybe
Worship - Genital
Worshiping the genitals of another person. Maybe
Wrestling
Wrestling with another person, overpowering them or being overpowered. Yes


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