Can the aging process increase sexual desire and performance in women? The usual answer is "No," but I have reason to wonder. Years after the divorce, I have discovered that my ex, who found most sex unpleasant, if not painful, has blossomed into a lusty, wild woman. I had heard rumors, but did not find them credible; couldn't reconcile rumors to what I knew.

Yet, to my surprise, I now find that it's true. She has had any number of conquests, both older and younger men. Still not sure about women, though I have heard suggestions along those lines; something completely out of any prior experience or even inclination.

Where once even any self-stimulation was never used by her, now she has an array of toys and has even made a video of herself getting off with a big rabbit dildo. She never enjoyed oral sex, but I know that lately she has had threesomes where she frantically sucked a guy and swallowed(!!) his load while another fellow pounded her pussy. Go figure.

I'm interested in hearing what others think and whether this is something experienced by others. How would you account for it? Medical miracle? Alien abduction? I hope to hear from some here.

And for what it's worth, I'm kind of glad for her--though confused and angry that I'm missing out, lol. In fact, nothing makes me hornier than thinking about her when I look at any "mature" video here or chatting hot about her. Has anyone else had such an experience? Please let me know.

Oh, and anyone interested in swapping similar stories of exes or having some hot, nasty chats about same, DO contact me. It's an area I'm eager to explore and share with f or m. ;)