Hi there! Usually, my blog entries will be about the sex that Erin and I have together. We have an open relationship so I might also have sex with another girl or guy or maybe we will do a 3-way and I'll write about that. Or I might write about how I masturbate. Of course there are other things that are special to me too. Like raising my newborn baby girl, spirituality, politics, housekeeping, hobbies, etc. But I don't want to bore you on this blog about any of that. But you can private message with me about those things and I'll bore you there LOL.
Thank you for reading my posts. Of course, comments are always welcome. Love, Shanti.
[11/22/11] A hot topic these days seems to be anal sex. At least lots of guys want it. Us girls like it too. At least Erin and I do. But not quite in the way that those porn vids show it with some dude hammering the poor girl's ass with his thick monster cock. Well, Erin wants to try it that way, but she's going to find out that the best anal play is with a girl or at least with a guy who has a small cock and knows how to use it.
I've had anal sex with two guys. I did it with the first guy several times. It wasn't bad. Good actually. He got me ready with his tongue and lubed fingers. Then he slowly pushed into me. Even though his cock was maybe only 5 inches, he couldn't put it in all the way. Maybe an inch or two past his cock head. But his strokes were smooth and rhythmic. Truth be told, it didn't feel really special until I started using my vibrator in my pussy at the same time. Then his cock up my asshole felt really good.
The second guy to have anal sex with me was a jerk. He wasn't supposed to go back there in the first place. We were just going to have regular sex, but he snuck it in my asshole “by accident” and really let me have it. I pulled his cock out of my ass, slapped his face as hard as I could, put my clothes back on and took off. I never saw that pecker again.
But, like I say, I don't need a guy's cock. Anal play with a girl is the best. I love it when Erin licks my asshole with her tongue. Or when she runs her tongue from my clit to my pussy lips and then to my asshole. Then back up to my clit again. I do that to Erin too. And I use my fingers in the places where my tongue isn't. Our favorite position to do this is in the “69”. Erin usually ends up squirting on my face. I'm not a squirter, but my pussy gets really wet and i rub my cum all over Erin's face. Then we turn around and lick each others' face clean. In between our kisses.
I'm also training Erin so that she can have anal sex with a man. I can't convince her that it's overrated, so I might as well prepare her for the big event. Erin gets on her hands and knees and then bends forward. I get behind her and lick and finger her asshole to get her loose. Then I put on my strap-on. It is a smallish one. Only 5 inches and made of soft plastic. I put lube on my hand and start stroking my strap-on dildo like I'm a guy jacking his cock. Then I slowly insert it into Erin's asshole. With each stroke, I go in a little further and pull out till just the tip is still in her. After a few minutes I pick up the pace until I'm thrusting up Erin's hole really hard - just like those b**sts in the porn vids. I continue until Erin cries “Uncle”.
Like I say, I do like the “69” for anal play better than using a strap-on. But I must admit that fucking Erin in the doggy makes me feel powerful, so I know why the guys like fucking a girl from behind. And Erin is getting her training. Except that I'm not going to let Erin have anal sex with a guy if his cock is larger than 6 inches. That wouldn't be right.
Well, that's it for now. Thank you for reading this. Peace out, Shanti
[11/7/11] It's been a little over a month since I gave birth to my baby daughter. Sexually speaking, the experts say it takes most women a while to get back to normal. In some ways that is true with me. I really can't take any fucking from guys right now. My pussy isn't ready yet. But I'm as horny as I can ever remember. So it is really good that I'm living with Erin.
It's hard to explain how we live together. To a voyeur, perhaps, it might seem all about sex. Most of the time we are running around the house with no clothes on. Or hardly any. Maybe just panties or a t-shirt. We just like to be naked. And with our stupendous wood heater, there is no reason to wear much.
We're always playing with our pussies in front of each other. Not so much to arouse each other. Just because it makes us feel good. Our favorite position, by far, is the “69”. Usually we use our tongues, fingers and soft dildos when we go at it that way. Never been too much into toe-fucking before, but we do that too while we're sitting at the kitchen table.
Speaking of toes, we paint each other's toenails and we groom each other's pussy. Right now we are growing our pussy hair in the shape of hearts. A brown one (Erin) and a blonde one (me). I'm not as much into water sports as Erin, but we do pee on each other's clit in the shower. Let's see. What else do we do? Erin loves to lick my pussy while I breast feed my daughter. That feeling to me is indescribably hot. A couple of times I have been between Erin's legs while she is messaging on xhamster. I finger and lick her pussy while she is messaging a guy about how she likes to suck cock. I've gotten her to squirt on my face a couple of times.
I mentioned in my last blog entry that I'm into tantric yoga exercises. My teacher suggested one exercise. Erin and I do it almost every morning when we wake up. We sit naked on a mat with our legs locked around each other's waists and our pussies are pressed together. Then we kiss very deeply and meditate on the sexual energy that our pussies are feeling. We can hold the position for 15 or 30 minutes and it feels so wonderful. A great way to start the day.
We've done several videos of us making love. Just the other night I was between Erin's legs. We were moaning and making lots of noise and Erin's kitty cat, Tiger, climbed up on the bed because he thought we were calling him. By mistake, I kicked him in the head and he ran away. We're thinking of posting that vid on xhamster with our faces blurred out.
Like I said at the beginning of this entry, it takes awhile for a woman to get her strength and her body back into shape after giving birth. I'm starting to do Kegel exercises to help me along. I know that it is not a traditional Kegel exercise, but I'm using Erin's strap-on to thrust relentlessly into Erin's asshole. It does give my pelvic muscles a workout and Erin likes it because it is an intro into anal sex that she can't stop talking about.
Well, that's it for now. Thank you for reading this. I love sex and I love writing about it. Peace out, Shanti
[10/29/11] For my very first entry, I thought a short intro would be a good idea since I've only been on the site for just a few weeks and nobody knows me.
I became sexually active at a young age. I've done all those things that Erin notches on her bedpost. And a few more things too. Except I've never done golden showers with a guy or used a strap-on with a guy. But I have done pee games and strap-ons with girls. And I've had anal sex too.
But over the last several years, my outlook on sex has changed. In the beginning, I needed guys' approval and did lots of stuff just for that reason. Now I want guys, but I don't need them. Now I only get involved with guys and girls that respect me as an individual person who is not better or worse than them – but equal to them.
Lately, I've been getting into a way of thinking that is kind of like the practice of tantric yoga. Finding ways to tap into and channel sexual energy to give greater meaning to life. I can only do that if I'm having sex with someone where there is mutual respect and love. Another thing I like to do is sexual role play. Doing things that a nice girl wouldn't do. But again, only if there is respect and love between my partner and me.
This xhamster site is very cool. It is what I make of it. There are so many interesting people on here and some really hot vids, pics & stories too. Sure there are some profiles & vids that aren't my cup of tea. But nobody is making me go to any profiles or watch any vids. Hey, there are some vids that Erin has saved on our page as favs that I find repulsive. But I just ignore them. I guess I kind of subscribe to the philosophy of “live and let live” and I don't like too much drama in my life.
The one pet peeve that I have about xhamster is how some of the posters title their vid and pic galleries. For example, there might be a vid of a girl pleasuring herself that is titled, “Whore Loosening Up Her Cunt For a Hard Cock.” Please. But the posters are nice enough to upload the vids and pics, so I guess they can select the title.
Sorry if this is not a real hot first post, but thank you for reading it. My next post will be sexier.