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Another night, another fantasy, another gender

The obvious extension of my recent thoughts was finding out what the female fantasies were. Below is the supposed top ten and some of my thoughts about them. For me none actually came as a surprise. Which might say more about me than the fantasies themselves.

#1 The **** fantasy
"Many women do dream about getting m*****ed by a man, or fantasize about a man walking in, carrying her onto a haystack and nailing her."
I am been on the receiving end of the fantasy, as it were, in the past. I can confirm that some women do want this one. For my male readers if you are asked to fulfil this one don't get too scared it's kind of weird, don't go too far mind you. There are lines you just shouldn't cross.

#2 Being a stripper
"They dream about stripping for an audience. They especially love it when a man takes out a few notes and dangles them down her G-strings."
I've found, as popular as this is supposed to be, that I have known all the wrong women obviously. I'm told that many women are too inhibited to actually carry this one through even after a bottle of vodka. I have been asked to strip in the past. I'm too inhibited as well it seems.

#3 Role reversals
"Women wonder what it would be like to be in a man’s shoes. Or more precisely put, they wonder what it would be like to be in a man’s boxers and take the man in the front or back."
This one seems to have been kept quiet. But I have known couples who have fulfilled this one. I've mentioned before the memory of an ex-girlfriends s****r heading out to meet her boyfriend and packing a couple of strap-ons.
I suspect in a lot of cases the females are too nervous to bring this one up to their partners.

#4 Group sex
"This is a one of the bigger fantasies for women and men. Surprisingly, women like to dream about the same thing too! But they don’t want an Asian or some far-fetched demigod (they might), they just want their man’s friend!"
Although the threesome fantasy I quite accept as being desired. It never occured to me that women think about it with their partners best friend though. That would make me slightly nervous to be honest. I don't like to share you see. Also, depending on what day it is, my best friend could be a gay irish man.

# 5 A gorgeous woman
"Many women secretly fantasize about having a physical affair with someone like Angelina Jolie or some other hot bombshell who always talks like she loves to have sex with women."
Really wouldn't know about this. I fantasise about having sex with women all the time after all.

#6 Exhibitionism
"Many fantasies for women include showing off. A lot! They've got almost all their clothes off. If not that, a woman fantasizes about having sex in public where people can see her performing her act."
This is the risky/risque sex thing isn't it? You can't fool me, not more than twice anyway. From yesterdays blog you should know I like the idea of this.

#7 Submissive mate
"She fantasizes about being told what to do in bed. She wonders how it would feel to be called a slut or a whore in bed. It may even turn her on. Even though it sounds like a guy’s fantasy, what the woman does during this act is her fantasy."
Do you know I'd feel bad about this. Not so much telling what to do, but the whole slut/whore thing. I've never been that good and talking in bed. I'd like to think I'm more action, even if I'm not.

#8 Dominatrix
"This includes tying him up and doing whatever she wishes to her man. Telling him to perform sexual acts on her as well as making him beg for what he wants, are just a few things that run along in a woman’s mind in this fantasy for women."
Oh come on, this is a male fantasy isn't it?
I could get to like this. Just not all the time.

#9 A stranger in the bedroom
"Women may cringe when an unknown male touches them, but they do love it inside their head! The thought of meeting a stranger for one night of great sex, where she can do anything and everything she wants is just what can turn her on like a light bulb."
This is guilt free, release to self-abandoned enjoyment. Who wouldn't fantasise about this given half a choice. Surely most of these fantasies are not gender specific.

#10 Come and get me, boys!
"This fantasy is all about having several men touch a woman at the same time. She may even dream about being surrounded by several men kissing, touching and seducing her at the same time."
This is another one I really don't know what to think. I can't comment properly. I need to spend some time with a group of women, not like that you naughty people, I mean to talk about this kind of thing and try and get into their heads a bit to try and understand better.

Posted by ssrmHull 2 years ago
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2 years ago
Adaptable in fantasy is the very best thing I know. Once the step is taken in the head it opens up all manner of possibilities in real life pleasure I think.
2 years ago
2 years ago
the selection is good but the definitions are lame n one-densional (not your opinions, hunny!). the fantasies tht we play with in my head and act out are many-layered n complex. one night my fantasy of being gang-banged may focus around my Domme persona commanding a bunch of guys to my own n their frenzy. another night I may play tne knowing choosing cum slut fuck toy. another night the also-knowing but innocent, violated but wet...... oh hunny..... x