i am observing the opposite changes that happen before having sex -when one feels very hot- and after having an orgasm. feelings and thoughts vary wildly in opposite directions. its like a switch being turned on and off. u may want to fulfill a sexual fantasy so much at the summit of ur hotness and afterwards u are just amazed u wanted that fantasy -and even thinking what stupid thought it was. as with any other emotion, thats why is not generally a good idea to make certain decisions when u feel very emotional, be that sad, happy, angry, sexual, etc, otherwise there is a danger to committ suicide, trust people you shouldnt have trusted, being hurtful with someone, or get aids. so if u absolutely dont need to, do not make decisions when u feel very emotional.

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