My wife does not have my password for this site so I am going to share my idea here with you and get your take. I have been trying to come up with a way to have a trial run with my wife on all of this and at first I thought we were going to do a soft swap. However I now have come up with an idea that will make for a great trial run that will see how committed she is to this lifestyle and will be very exciting.
I am going to tell my wife I have met the perfect guy for her, a tall handsome well hung black guy at my gym and tell her I'd like for her to hook up with him. If she balks I am going to insist she trusts me. I am going to tell her she is to go to the hotel room I have reserved where she will get undressed, get on the bed and put the blindfold on she finds on the pillow and wait for our arrival. I am going let her know that there will be no talking, just sex.
Now of course the only guy that will enter the room is me but she will have no way of knowing that. I am going to put on some "black" music, and wear a different cologne. I am going to do all the touching and not allow her to do things like run her hands through my hair. After I get undressed, and trust me she will hear the clothes come off and I will be looking to see if she is getting aroused, I am going to do a lot of touching and see how she responds. I want to find out how wet she gets and everything else, if she seems ready I will push her down to the bed and if she submits then I know my wife is down for this. It's a given I am going to fuck her and if she has a different kind of orgasm with someone she thinks is not me then I now I have accomplished my mission.
What do you think?