Dull, middle-aged, inappropriately libidinous. Still; we can't have everything. I'll be a bloke who should not be in here but still does lurk. Wanting to find out if there really IS another world out there, or if it's mostly bullshit. Like to fantasise that maybe I'll meet someone for occasional discreet meets but realistic enough to think it's unlikely to happen. Still; would I like to fuck a different woman? Hell yes. I'm a bloke, after all. If there is a woman out there willing to try me out, I'd be delighted (and astounded).
Despite myself, I clearly never learn. When will we blokes understand that porn sites feed on our insecurities and that we'll NEVER really meet a woman through such places? Probably because, like most of the men in here, I'll be wildly naive/optimistic. Cynical these days, too. Shame but there you go. If I had the balls, I'd like at least to find out more.
Only one more item and one I'm sure is a common trait in here. I understand that many will not be interested in chatting, which is fine but a simple "thanks but no thanks" is all it takes. After all, if you're online anyway, those of us trying to say "hello" only ask that there be a level of courtesy. Man; I'm getting old/grumpy.