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passiva

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Back to the...ahem...grind tomorrow.
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Signed up:856 days ago
Last Activity:14 minutes ago
Profile Viewed:106,623 times
Rank:PIMP
Comments:7,671
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From:GTA, Ontario, Canada
Language:English
Personal Information
Relation:Taken
Kids:Yes, we live together
Education:BA/BS (4 years college)
Star sign:Virgo
Smoking:Never
Drinking:Occasionally
Website:https://fetlife.com/users/3413859
Physical Information
Ethnicity:White
Height:5 ft 5 in (165 cm)
Hair length:Long
Hair color:Blonde
Eye color:Hazel
About Me
Hi, thanks for stopping by. Please have a read through the following, and decide whether you want to hang around.

I've had submissive leanings for as long as I can remember, but have only recently embraced the reality of my submissive nature. It was only virtual exploration and play for quite some time, but more recently I had the amazing experience of moving into the real world. What a great day it turned out to be when I created a FetLife profile; while I only did it to take a peek into local BDSM, in a surprisingly short time it led me to my first real-life Dom, and the very hot path that we spent some time walking down together.

While there have been some bumps along the way, 2014 truly was the year of My Great Sexual Renaissance, and overall it's been more transformational than I ever could have imagined. I can't wait to continue learning, exploring and experiencing as I move forward on this incredible journey. I have, in fact, very recently embarked on a brand new adventure that has begun to make me purr...but not sharing quite yet :)

For those folks looking for friendships / communications / interactions etc., please note that I have a small number of locked folders. These are PRIVATE so don't ask me for the passwords. I share more than most via my hundreds of fave'd vids and galleries as well as my original stories and blog posts (which, IMHO, are very very hot). If you don't think it's reasonable that I keep a few things PRIVATE, then you are cordially invited to fuck off. NOW.

That having been said, I am happy to receive friend requests, provided:

- You have some obvious interest in BDSM
- Your avatar is not blank or a cock shot
- You have visible (unlocked) content to share. I am very proud of my collections, including the original story and blog content, and want to know that my friends are reciprocating
- You’re not obviously into something outside of my comfort zones. This is subjective and is based entirely on gut feeling.
- You're not a male young enough to be my offspring. Again completely subjective but I don't self-identify as a cougar.
- Your friends list doesn't contain profiles that I believe to be fake or dangerous. I've managed to avoid any trolls so far and intend to keep it that way.

Well, that sums it up. Pretty simple, right? Thanks for reading, wishing you well, and provided you can work within my boundaries, will look forward to hearing from you.

xo




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43 minutes ago
lets back to work...
1 hour ago
Thank you - enjoy :)
1 hour ago
Your welcome :)
1 hour ago
Hello, very nice profile ! I love. Kisssss xxx
21 hours ago
wow (not a positive wow)
22 hours ago
Sadly, this isn't uncommon...no full moon required.

Suppose I shouldn't be surprised given out forum of choice, but SERIOUSLY...
22 hours ago
If you have never been invited to be tied up and **raped** (her word NOT mine) by a woman, and then to have her husband suck the evidence out of you and deposit it in your mouth, well, you definitely don't have breasts. Or I don't even know what. And THAT was in response to a very polite decline of a friend invite...
23 hours ago
Very true some things cant be undone. I have a feeling that because of my lack of breasts (I don't even have man boobs) I miss out on the truly weird PMs. Was it a full moon or something? That usually brings out the true weirdos.
1 day ago
Oh sweetie, if you're going by what you see at lunchtime, you're not getting anywhere near the full technicolour experience...try about 3:30pm your time.
Of course, in the spirit of 'some things can't be unread' you might instead consider doing the smart thing and completely ignoring my suggestion. Yeesh.
1 day ago
Holy hell, tell me about it! We're only one time zone apart so you may well have heard from the same cretins that I did :)
1 day ago
It's entirely possible...I was thinking that maybe everyone left awake was either drunk, stoned or so emboldened by the week hours of the morning that they stopped filtering AT ALL. Not only did I receive PM's from a dozen complete strangers, but the degree of truly disgusting content was unbelievable. And trust me, I'm not often surprised or offended. Apparently the lesson to be learned was that I should have been asleep as well. :)
1 day ago
The looneys come out at night!
1 day ago
Looks at ground - kicks pebble.

Well, shucks, ma'am!
1 day ago
"Xham late at night is SUCH a different experience. Bleh..."

is that because then the creeps are there cause done their dayjob, or because every one's asleep?
1 day ago
If you are on the other side of the world you get to see late night shenanigans at lunch time
1 day ago
I just almost broke into song.
PS Agreed.
1 day ago
Got to love having high hopes. I remember being told when I was younger that god loves somebody with low expectations -as they are rarely disappointed. I say bullocks to that.
2 days ago
very nice profile-page!!
2 days ago
thx for accepting my invitation ... i'm glad to discover your profile and I appreciate very much your favorite videos
2 days ago
being able to laugh at one's self is so important
2 days ago
Thanks for accepting our invitation for friendship, hope you find plenty to sexually stimulate you in our profile galleries and videos - all our own work.
Please send me a PM with the password to your padlocked stuff and then I can have a look and comment on your stuff. Love
2 days ago
PS I'd forgotten how much I enjoy your avatar :)
2 days ago
Honestly, the fact that it was AT my place was probably the biggest surprise of all :)
2 days ago
Oh to be a fly on the wall at your place Passiva...
2 days ago
Hallo, your intersting profile makes me courios to know more about the wonderful sexy women behind..you have a awesome sexy collection of vids and pic..
2 days ago
Pun intended?
It wasn't a real hitachi but something equally powerful and EVIL, based on my experience...except this one had a heat function. Which I do not recommend at all. Well, mostly.
2 days ago
Yes it could have been worse; I was pleased to be able to laugh about it. Many of the same reasons I could have laughed with you - for the foreseeable future anyway - without risk of confusion. As you've surely deduced I value friends with a good sense of humour.
2 days ago
nice, it could have been worse. Where is my number when you do something like that (not that it would help much right now)
2 days ago
You are right, my friend. Life would be very dull without a little temptation...I guess it's all what you do with it :) Finally tried the Thrill; you were right, it's a winner!
2 days ago
My fairly recent intro to Crown happened to be sexually charged, and as such it's become a bit of a kick-starter for me. Did the trick for sure :)
2 days ago
Or making dates with the wrong person, it would seem. Couldn't even blame it on the Crown as it was middle of the workday. Just over-eager fingers, I guess. Thankfully the female friend who received said message did not get the wrong idea but instead laughed at me mercilessly when I explained. All in all a much better outcome :)
2 days ago
Now that's a plug for Hitachi if I ever heard one!
2 days ago
Crown Royal is always a good start.
2 days ago
Yes you do have to be careful with cell phones, for a whole number of issues, drunk texting, drunk camera shots, fumbling with camera when drunk ...
3 days ago
lost mine in st lauwrence river under champlain bridge while fishing last october
3 days ago
What would life be like without a little temptation? You stay warm too. Have a wonderful evening!
3 days ago
I really couldn't help myself :D
3 days ago
Now that made me laugh :)
3 days ago
Its more likely to be hiding in there, until you choke on it...... Lol
3 days ago
Like I'll look for you in my drink
3 days ago
Oh Harv...it's totally better. Therein lies the temptation. Have a good one and keep warm! xo
3 days ago
OK, thanks anyway!!
3 days ago
"Now, back to reality. Seriously." WHY? This is way better! Have a great day!! :)
3 days ago
Tell me about it... :(
3 days ago
Hot videos
3 days ago
Awwww.... Do we have to? I dont want to.....
3 days ago
xo :)
3 days ago
Then I shall be most happy to oblige :)
3 days ago
I think I'll play the part of underestimated iceberg and sink ships.
3 days ago
Meeting...much better word than party. Not to say that it might not end up a party ;)
Unfortunately no matter what we call it, for the foreseeable future i am in the same boat that started this string. Wrong side of the fucking Atlantic :(
3 days ago
Yes just a meeting to see what happens from there.
Be interesting.
3 days ago
Kitty between us we could cuff it together??
3 days ago
Well perhaps party was an overstatement, but I would relish the opportunity to put faces to a number of select names ;)
3 days ago
That is exactly what Captain Edward Jon Smith said on 15 April 1912.
3 days ago
enjoys this day!
3 days ago
I do, and thankyou. As for a party, I wouldn't know where to start. :) xx
3 days ago
Yeah, the oceans too bloody cold..... I prefer something MUCH warmer..... :) lol
3 days ago
OK both of you...wrong side of the fricking ocean here...if I ever make it over at the right time I fully expect a GIANT party. Just sayin'...:)
4 days ago
Kitty . So would I.
4 days ago
Hello!
4 days ago
humm hell sexy
4 days ago
Well, know the thought was genuine. And the offer stands. xo
4 days ago
Thanks, but I dont think it make me feel better. Xxx
4 days ago
Well that clarifies your wrong side remark...very sorry. Sending you good thoughts. Many, many. And if you would like me to kick some transatlantic ass on your behalf, just let me know xo
4 days ago
Unfortunately I cant even take any pics :(. And its not much fun doing it alone, so I haven't really gone any further with it.
4 days ago
Your profil is great. I think we are some how likeminded. I see a lot of common fantasy browsing your favorites.I hope to visit your world often. Kissies in submission

Justine
4 days ago
Sorry I forgot you were self-teaching. Even more exciting!
I think i'll need clarification on the wrong side comment, if we're actually talking about the ocean. Otherwise, got it and sending hugs and kisses xo
4 days ago
There are no lessons at all. As for the wrong side, I know just how you feel.
4 days ago
for a 1000$ you can be there soon!
4 days ago
EXACTLY what I was thinking! Sometimes the world is too big :)
4 days ago
easy for you to say my dear, you're on the right side of it :( xo
PS hope all is well and looking forward to hearing about the rope lessons
4 days ago
Id much rather be fucking something else.
4 days ago
Fucking Atlantic.

Yes if it was not there I could drive over.
4 days ago
just add a new video on my profile
4 days ago
You must be pleasure for sure
4 days ago
meeeee tooooooo ha!!!
4 days ago
They are addictive, they bring a lot of pleasure
4 days ago
I am in awe of your piercings. Have never had any desire for any beyond my ears, but I thoroughly admire your courage.
4 days ago
everything is good for me today, thinking of getting 2 more labia piercings, like I don't have enough of them:)
4 days ago
Thanks for stopping by! Everything is great here, hope it is with you as well xo
4 days ago
hey girl thought I just drop you a Hi, hope all is well today
4 days ago
I don't know if content is exactly the word, but it's coming along nicely and seems to be providing surprises around every corner. So I'm definitely happy with how it's started, thanks, despite certain friends having moved halfway around the world.
4 days ago
My pleasure, thanks for accepting :)
4 days ago
Sounds like you are entirely content with the year thus far
4 days ago
Kiss you! Wonderful and polite lady! All the best darlinG
4 days ago
Many thanks for the invite.
5 days ago
thanks for adding...
5 days ago
Well I certainly can't complain about how you've filled in your profile. Sent you an add :)
5 days ago
you want to add me?
5 days ago
I love submissive girls mmmmm so exciting
5 days ago
Hi I'm from the GTA. Unfortunately nothing to put up on my profile as of yet. Let me know if you would like to chat and see if we have anything in common. A pleasure to view your profile
5 days ago
no problem PIMP! wish u best;)
5 days ago
How did you know it was those fricking cabbage patch kids???! Little bastards, calling me out on group selections :)
5 days ago
I would think that there could be some rather fun site cross over issues, I hate the cabbage patch kids fan club website and fetlife cross over issues
5 days ago
Showing my age? :)
It was actually very appropriate for the day I've had.
5 days ago
Haha...I can't believe you wrote that.
6 days ago
Amazing favorites!
6 days ago
Yes I must say you do have alot of hard Bdsm stuff ,very nice .
6 days ago
does my profile is getting fill enough for you become friend?
6 days ago
Thank you!!! :)
6 days ago
Lol completely agree...sadly this was NOT one of those mornings :)
PS love your pics!
6 days ago
I agree with your status. Mornings can suck... literally :) atleast those are the only good ones.. haha
7 days ago
BDSM world... Paying my respects...
7 days ago
Please read my bio - the locked files are off limits.
7 days ago
My pleasure for being a friend. What is your pass at the albums?
7 days ago
Swiss army knife is an interesting analogy...no less enigmatic, mind you, but interesting :)
And agreed re outside of the bedroom. xo
7 days ago
That is true, I had forgotten all about that. You could say that my likes / desires are so varied and broad that I enjoy being a bit of a bedroom Swiss army knife, well I really wouldn't just limit myself to the bedroom, some of the best fun is conducted out of the bedroom (and yes that comment has both PG rated connotation and one that isn't)
7 days ago
Would love to see your pics!
7 days ago
Thanks, needed that.

Still waiting for an end/explanation to the enigma, BTW. I think I may have posted this on your wall pre-Xmas... :)
8 days ago
Well your enthusiasm might not always be your friend, but your friends drawn by your enthusiasms just might be
8 days ago
I'll be happy to...after you have some more content, especially some that shows me whether we have common interests. Feel free to reconnect when you've filled out your profile some :)
8 days ago
My pleasure :)

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