My sex philosophy is pretty simple. If a lady grants me access to her delights it is a privledge and not a right. The fact that she does indicates to me that she likes me and wants me to love her. Therefore it becomes my duty to see that she enjoys and receives pleasure from the encounter. She should feel like a princess when its all done and not like a street walker; like a lady and not a whore. So I do not use deroggatory language in her arms nor let my mind drift but concentrate on loving her to the best of my ability.