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How much would you pay?

How much is to much?

What would you pay for an amazing night of sex?

Would you pay in cash or with your heart?

Do you look for cash back option or just a deal sign, sealed and delivered.

What would you expect in return?

Is the thought of paying for sex repulsive or sexy?

Do you feel it works out cheaper than taking a woman out for the night and paying for drinks and a meal and not be sure of her satisfying you at the end of it?

I am genuinely intrigued. Talk to me people tell me your thoughts xx
Posted by ladyscarlettxx 1 year ago
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11 months ago
I have paid for sex; never picked up a woman off the streets, no these are escorts - booked in advance. Why? I know I am going somewhere away from home, want a bit of company, want to ensure I have sex so why not book a lady who is exactly what I want? Blond, brunette, redhead, big boobs, pubes, fully shaven. Sounds corny I know; like selecting someone from a catalog which indeed it is. But they are professional ladies doing a job; every one I have had has totally enjoyed the evening, I provide drinks and snacks, music, an atmosphere and I treat them like a lady. I make sure they orgasm, am sensitive to their needs and I get to have sex with beautiful women. Is this right or wrong of me?
buckfast2...
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1 year ago
Have not had to pay for it. But at the same time think it would be very kinky paying for it in the way you won't see them again and if you want to try something a bit kinky that you would not ask some 1 you jst met then yes I would jst to try it ;) x
1 year ago
its always cheaper to pay for sex, and they never say no!!! xxx
1 year ago
I have pondered this question for a time--my 2 cents worth.As a male,statements will be said--I would give my left nut for a crack at that--or--what I would do with a shot of that,all wishful whimsy.Reality for me is the intimacy that ensues with knowing my Lover as a lover.There is more pride in shared responsibilities,rather than just renting.Albeit,to feed a certain fetish or quirk,a business transaction is best served.A wonderful question in these complex times.
1 year ago
Like your profile says 'Having that emotional connection makes sex so much more pleasuable!!!' the synergy of atraction and lust for mutual benefit is enough to blow your pants off so why pay
1 year ago
would rather let it happen free, haven't ever paid for a girl just to have sex, never will..
tribune80
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1 year ago
Never tried it, but as a treat to myself some super model type just the once maybe..
That's the fantasy!!
But in reality..
I'm pretty sure the financial aspect would have a burden, has to be some natural lusting & respect from both sides.
and the fantasy would be ruined for ever!!
smegger
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1 year ago
Depends on who with x
UKGentlem...
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1 year ago
Been thinking about this one more. As I said before, nothing is for free. I agree with Jay below - it has to be fun for both parties. NSA is great, but what does it leave you with after orgasm? If both sides can manage to keep it just friendly great, but it isn't always that way.

What are you own thoughts?
1 year ago
Intimacy or no intimacy, it's nice to know the woman you're having sex with is reciprocal in the enjoyment and isn't just doing it for the compensation of a fee

If you're looking at it from an NSA point of view, it's fan and more raw in the sexual attraction and the moment, with love there's the intimate connection which perhaps adds more in different ways adding to a more sensual experience

I think I'm better built for love than just raw sex personally, I'm pretty sure I don't have the credentials for hot steamy nsa, no offence to myself lol but I have a rough guess what women go for in that regard lol x
1 year ago
For me there's little satisfaction when you know it's only for the money
UKGentlem...
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1 year ago
It's an excellent question, and a very difficult one to answer. Any transaction around sex means giving up something - money, emotion, ties elsewhere. The simplest is a cash transaction, but is that ever really possible? It occurs to me that if you only pay cash, you've already left a part of yourself somewhere. A very good question worth dwelling on.
Jstevens30
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1 year ago
I've never paid for sex myself so I can't comment on that. It's not that I find it repulsive I just think its more fun if you find someone who wants to do it for more than cash.
I have met some great guys an girls for some mutual fun that we both wanted an all I had to pay was ye cost of a hotel room. So to answer your question I'd pay whatever the cost of the hotel room. X
1 year ago
Ok, from experience, the more you pay the better the experience, you can pay a lot for a GFE (girl friend experience) and those that are good at it, are either really good actresses or really into it. It's not a comparison, it's just different. Paying with your heart is a great experience, but of it goes wrong, it's a lot of pain. I think,paying for it can still be an emotional transaction, they don't have to be mutually explicit. If we meet when I am home and I take you to vaudeville in town, nice meal, then some dancing, paid for the evening, and we got on together, is that still me paying for an uncertainty? It's an interesting subject!
1 year ago
who wants a act , i,d rather fucked someone who enjoyed it rather than just a piece of meat
1 year ago
I would agree there is definitely bound to be more there if its mutual rather than a cash transaction. I guess it's one of those taboo areas I can fantasise about, but in reality couldn't do lol.
col1457
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1 year ago
Not to sound awful but there is something in paying for sex. Everyone knows whats going to happen you can still have a meal.and some drinks first.

The added buzz of knowing its naughty and dirty is.an added turn on. Plus I think you get a.better performance.
1 year ago
Bigj66 an escort is also good at acting she can show that face pmsl
1 year ago
I wouldnt judge anyone on this,each to their own but am of a mind that I get a real buzz from having a bitta chat face to face and seeing that spark that says 'yeah I wanna fuck you'!
1 year ago
Thanks for your response Frublet.

Don't get me wrong i love intimacy, however given the nature of this site and perception of some men that sex is sex NSA, then I wondered really what difference there was to hiring an escort. I mean with the exception of money they are both casual and no level of emotional intimacy is required??
1 year ago
Hi don't think i could pay for sex and i tend to agree with horny devil on the intimacy angle.
1 year ago
You can still have amazing sex without intimacy. That is surely why sex differs from making love! I would imagine that porn, cyber chat and NSA in general has not the intimacy that you talk of hornydevil
1 year ago
I only pay with my heart, sex without the intimacy is a business transaction, but with intimacy it is a memory that embeds itself into your core, and can be recalled again and again until the next time.
1 year ago
Lol you big romantic xx I'd let you, but I know that once would never be enough and I'd become addicted lol
nb1
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1 year ago
I think anyone should pay for it! But like I said I would fly you over book a hotel wine and dine you see a show but want a cuddle.