Hello my Hammys,
I didn't want to have to write about this topic, I always try to just be polite and positive and focus on having fun, but unfortunately some random jerkfaces on this site have taken to harassing me, and a girl can only take so much before she gets mad and has to vent some steam.
Apparently I'm guilty of the worst crime on xHam - IWF, Internetting While Female. (Please note the italics to denote sarcasm)
I'm not going to get into any details or name any names, I'm just going to say that there is a MASSIVE double-standard online. It's perpetuated by the jerks/bullies who harassed me, and it goes something like this:
- Any guy online is just a guy, and nothing is expected of him.
- Any girl online is immediately "posing/faking/lying" and is subject to harassment, bullying, and personal attacks unless she does ALL of the following things:
1) Post naked photos
2) Post naked videos
3) Have sex with every single guy who comes across their page online, because honestly, how else can we verify ourselves unless we're actually physically there having sex with you. Oh, and letting you film the entire process to post online to prove you had sex with us.
It's ridiculous. Pop into any cam room on xHam and you'll see why girls get frustrated, and why most of us have such a low tolerance for mean/rude comments.
A girl can literally be fingering herself on a cam, and some anonymous jerkface will pop up and say "HAVE SEX WITH ME NOW YOU SLUT!"
Or if she's lucky, he might say something more refined like "SHOVE YOUR FIST IN YOUR CUNT NOW YOU WHORE! MAKE THAT PUSSY SQUIRT ON MY DICK!"
I know not all guys act like this, but there are unfortunately enough of them out there. And unfortunately, it causes us girls to be naturally defensive, just as you guys are naturally defensive if you've encountered a particularly bitchy girl online.
I don't understand why guys, or girls have to act horrible towards people on xHam. Why are they wasting their time trying to create drama??? It's a freaking porn site for crying out loud! Find your video, have your orgasm, and go take a nap. End of story.
I tried my best to ignore the jerks/trolls, but I just needed to vent. I already hate that they annoyed me enough to write this blog as a response, but oh well.
Please just be polite to each other, and remember you're on a porn site and it's supposed to be about fun.
If you want to read more about this double-standard, please check out this blog, it says everything I have here, only much more in depth:
And to all of my Hammys who support me and send me kind words, you have my eternal affection and thanks. *Kisses and Boobie Hugs* For all of you :)