UPDATE: 10/04/13 01:48:06 AM
New blog post. Plus new & updated comments on the previous parts of my series, "The Harassment of Female xHamster Users Must Stop". After reading, please comment however you like. I encourage as many P.O.V's and as much debate as possible. It's the only way we can reach a consensus on a solution.
An extraordinary and unquenchable desire for shapely body parts falls short of encompassing the gamut & spectrum of myself or my predilections, but it's a good start. The female breast, for example, endlessly entrances me.
But I've lost a great deal in my life, much of it taken from me by others due to deceit, deception & selfishness. Because of this, I've come to believe that honesty isn't the best policy, it's the ONLY policy. This goes for oneself, as well as for others. So, you may or may not like what I have to say or type, or my choice of expression, but I humbly request you respect it, because I always attempt to convey the truth, while respecting yours.
If you choose to be hypocritical and/or play games, please engage with someone else. I prefer not to indulge in the negative manipulation of people's thoughts or emotions, because in those situations, everyone's not on an equal playing field. It's too easy for people to get hurt, or intentions to be misunderstood. And to me, sexual adventures, in all forms, ARE NOT competitions nor supposed to be. They're experiences - experiments in pleasure - to be shared, enjoyed & savored by all those involved.
That's why one of my favorite types of porn is Amateur - the intimacy between participants can be amazing. The sounds & noises made, the words shared can add not only to the physical sensations of those involved, but also to the experience of those watching. Other genres, like Gonzo & POV, also share some of these qualities in how reckless & spontaneous they can appear, yet can still feel intimate.
In fact, that can be the problem with the later work of many adult performers - their scenes can become monotonous, even mechanical at times, lacking passion, depth & enthusiasm. And that's when the faking, the degradation and the humiliation begin...just like in all kinds of real-life relationships, especially marriages.
I believe that is why one of my all-time favorite performers is Ms. Gianna Michaels. She incorporates & radiates many of the mentioned qualities from every part of her body, thereby illustrating how much she LOVES sex and everything involved with it. Because she doesn't give performances as much as have experiences when she's in front of a camera, choosing to share that side of herself with all of us.
So, please leave comments, positive/negative/etc., to let me know what you think, because sharing is always welcome, & if you have any requests or would like me to read & critique your story, feel free to pass them along too.
(Last updated: 10/04/2013)