I for one, when i am in the right mood, DO loooove and enjoy anal sex. I was almost 30 when i realized I not only "let" my husband in my ass, I now LIKED it. After a few drinks now, I am even the one asking to be buttfucked, lol.
But yes it has to be with someone I am comfy with and i do NOT like men asking disrespectful shit, as has already been said. It amzes me... Guys, u CAN get a LOT more pussy (and asshole) by being respectful and using humor, etc... Lol men will do ANYTHING for ass.. my ex used to offer to pay me for anal, lol... I also love giving it to my man if he wants. HOT stuff. Thanks for the post.

When I was in my teens and 20's I wasn't (or at least didn't know that I was) gay. I had sex with girlfriends and on rare occasions, when I got the chance, anal sex. I was married for several years and we had anal sex a few times, but I think it was only to please me. She took it just fine, but her pussy was where she wanted my cock.

On the other hand, I have always been turned on by anal, even before I got the chance to try it. It's great and feels sooo good, but there's more to it than that for me. I think it's the kinky aspect about it that makes me so horny when having anal sex.

As for receiving anal, I go along with what someone said above. There is nothing in the world {for me) like the feeling I get from having an orgasm with something up my butt! There is something that I don't notice or really even feel happening when I cum and my ass is empty that is simply mind blowing! When my ass is comfortably stretched around something and I cum, it starts to convulse and spasm in pulsing griping contractions on the object in my ass. It's the the most intense, horniest, sexually stimulating and satisfying feeling to me that there is. It's like having two orgasms at the same time and leaves me trembling and twitching in pleasure!

Taking it to the ultimate level, is when I have a real cock in my ass! Of course there is the main thing of having sex with someone vs masterbation and the fact that it's gay sex which, amoung other things, turns on my kinky side. Also, I find a real cock feels so much better and is comfortable inside me. It goes in easier and is also not so rigid and unyielding as a dildo. My hands and body are free to move and use as I like without having to pump a dildo in my ass. The thing I love to do the most is have sex with someone I trust and have him bare back me and cum deep inside me. Mmmmm, the wonderful kinky pleasure of knowing I have his sperm inside me and the feeling of his cum slick cock gliding in and out of my ass!

I love it both ways giving and getting there is nothing like a good hard cock shooting in my ass. Gay Bi or straight it is worth doing if you like pleasure. big thing especially guys take your time if you do, your partner will enjoy man or woman.

I have had it, I don't like it. I don't want to hear from some idiot who says you haven't had the right partner. That's b.s. I don't like it, plain and simple. I do, however, enjoy giving anal via a strap on to a man who likes that type of stimulation. I will ONLY consider it with someone who I am in a respectful, committed relationship with. I don't just casually do men with a strap on. I am offended by men who come up to me and ask for it. Same with breast feed. If men learn to respect women, then they would get a lot more pleasure from them.

Now this may surprise some, but I like pussy way more then ass. It could be because I am so thick and just do not get the same thrill/sensations as others from a woman's anus as I do her vagina.
If my lady wants it I will oblige without question and as for any guy I am with.... it is a must, where else are you going to put you cock?
I like giving and receiving, there is no pleasure for me without mutual pleasure. I guess I am the ultimate in 'Versatile' because I would not want to have a session with a guy where I was not giving and receiving.

Giving anl sex is ok. Not as enjoyable as pussy for me but I love receiving! I haven't experienced a strapon but really want to. Have had my prostate milked fucked with dildos and even fisted a few times and really enjoyed it!

Anal sex ALWAYS hurts for me no matter if the penis is small or not. I dont love it but I do enjoy it, depending on the guy. I never have orgasm with anal.
But it is about domination and feeling controlled by the man.

Never met the right ""MINDED WOMEN"". Reading everyones comments sounds cool, naw sounds fuckin Great. Its just that 'hump', you know!!

In order to enjoy anal sex, you have to submit sexually to him, realize that it is about His pleasure. When you come to that, and relax, and prepare yourself for giving your ass to him, then you are able to enjoy it yourself.

I openly admit that I enjoy a woman who will use a strap-on or dildo on me. You are right about the prostate! The first woman who knew how to massage my prostate I thought my head who explode! I love anal sex with a woman and rimming as well. I do not think that it makes a man gay. If you ahve an open mind about sex and your partner, both enjoy each other. Then it's makeing love. One thing though, is to make sure both you and your woman are clean inside... Thanks for your blog posts. They make me think of what I have done, and what i enjoy doing!

For me and my wife we do both. I get to fuck her arse and she gets to strap-on and fuck mine. I will admit though there is an element of truth that I let her fuck my arse so I could fuck hers but I really enjoy it and so does she. You are also correct about the stigma surrounding this, like you I am not gay but having a strap-on up your arse when you cum is fantastic so for all you guys out there who think this is gay, try it and believe me you will change your mind

I like both.

love strapon and getting fucked,not seeing much action recently though

I like to give and get. Too many guys think that the "getting" part is gay. They have no idea what they are missing. Getting the massage while getting jerked or blown always gives me a huge, mind numbing orgasm. And that giving up control is nice, too.

Anal better than vagina? No, just different. Tighter. Texturally different.

I have always fantasized about anal sex. Giving and receiving. I first tried to fuck my then-girlfriend in the ass when I was 19. She didn't mind trying, but decided it hurt too much. Some years later, I got my then-wife to give it a try. She wouldn't take it until she had given it to me first. She used several different toys on me on several different occasions and it was pretty incredable. I did her in the ass, bending her over the edge of the bed and she loved it! Unfortunately, I think she liked it too much and got scared then wouldn't do anything other than missionary afterwards. We separated/divorced and about a year later I got into a relationship with a very hot lady. The first time we had sex, she gave me an incredible blow job, slipping first one, then two fingers in my ass. When she started twisting them around, I blew the biggest load of cum ever into her mouth. After I recovered, We fucked like rabbits and she begged me to fuck her in the ass. I thought, "I've found the woman of my dreams," virtually no sexual hang-ups. Since then we've had it all ways. She has just as much of an ass/anal fetish as I do. After we were together for a few months, she got a Doc Johnson strapon harness with a couple of different attachments. This isn't a regular part of our sex play, more of a special occasion sort of thing and, I admit, I look forward to giving myself to her and having her pound my ass until she comes. When she starts to orgasam, she turns into a dervish, fucking my ass like an out of control machine. The best part is that she loves it the same way.

i absolutly love fucking people up the ass. love playing with peoples assholes, etc. but on the same token i enjoying getting fucked up the ass as well. strapon or cock. they are both great. but a cock shooting cum up your ass is great. but i guess you can buy the dildos that shoot out liquid. haven't had one of those yet.

Wish I had a guy to fuck my ass. Would be in heaven.

i as a woman have to say that i do let man man have sometimes because i know he loves it it is not my favorite thing to do by far but it is easier and better with lots of lube and after i am really hot already and much easier if he has stretched my pussy first he will not even consider letting me do him though but thats ok cause i really have no desore to anyway lol

i have never took it up tha ass. i am not gay or anythang. but i would try it. part of tha reason i haven't is becuz of all tha stigmatism. u cant just meet a chick and b like "hey u wanna fuck me in tha ass" lol. i dont think i would like it.. but i do wanna try it someday.. i do love to fuck gurls in there ass and i like to lick female assholes all over. i have never went to any great lengths to buttfuck a chick but have fantasized about it alot and love doin it. i love pussy but defintly love a sexy female or shemale asshole. thanks 4 tha blog and expressing ur opinions

i love when a female fucks my ass with a strap, on doesnt make you gat at all, youre very right about having your prostate massaged, it feels amazing, i was hesitant first but i love it now and do it all the time

luv when my lady takes with a strap on its so hot

My wife gets off on anal all the time and I like prostrate stimulaton as well.

I am honestly not a big fan of anal. I feel that vaginal intercourse feels way better. But that's just me. And yes, I agree with you. Having your prostate stimulated feels amazing and your not gay for liking it.

I enjoy anal sex if my Master takes his time and I am very well lubricated. I have no problem with it really. I have done prostrate massage on my Master as well and he throughly enjoyed it. And believe me, my Master is not gay at all. If men could only experience what a women open to many things could do for them...trust me, they would chnage their minds. Master told me he lost all will to live at one point...it was THAT GOOD. Try it, you'll enjoy it.

Anal sex is okay if the ass is very very wet and if the woman is in the correct position.
It would also be enjoyable if the man takes his time. Anal sex is fine.. I do it. Not my favorite.
I love pussy sex better..Laura

You probably should. My wife will pull it out occasionally when she is feeling a little dominate. She doesn't take it out enough. My wife actually finds me women to fuck in the ass because she can't, and yes she has tried. She knew this was a fetish of mine before we got together, so she compensates by finding one here and there for me.

I fuck my wife anally all the time. This morning as a matter of fact. It helps that she is a total ass-whore. To get anal all I have to do is be willing to oil up her ass and massage her ass cheeks and sphincter for about 10 or 20 minutes. Totally turns her on and loosens her up so she's ready for it.

On the receiving end. I get finger prostate massages quite often. My fav is one hand jacking while the other does my ass as far as she can reach.

The bummer is we bought a strap-on(and spent a lot of $$ for it too!!) and we've only used it once. She just isn't in to doing it. Feels awkward to her, can't get a rhythm going. Is too afraid of hurting me etc. LOL, I need to find a female Dom who can show her the ropes!

Cheers!
Wayne

See I actually get physical pleasure as well as the mental. I am always in control and once in a while I turn all the control to her.

i have been on the receiving end of it from a woman and I have to say that it is a total turn on for me. it's not as much a physical pleasure as a mental one. i love feeling of giving myself totally to a woman.