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Sex Tips for Women Tips for giving Oral Sex

1.Don’t try so hard. Last year, my friend “Bridget” asked me why she couldn’t fellate her boyfriend to orgasm. My response? In a perfect world of Playboy and porno flicks, hummers lead to big, healthy orgasms. You know the scene: some tramp uses a pogo-like motion to deep throat her partner, only to be greeted by the requisite money-shot a mere seconds later.


I told Bridget to ignore the pot o’ pearls at the end of the rain-blow. Instead, I asked her to think of the hummer as the perfect pre-game warm-up. Think about it…What better way to prepare for the plunge than with a good wand-wash? Do runners break records without stretching? Do writers hand in first drafts? No. Like a good appetizer, I’ve found that a little sucky-sucky before the supper always makes for a pleasant dining experience.

2. Give yourself a hand. Guys spend years refining their “handy” skills before grabbing their first gobbler. And while the hand is neither moist nor equipped with a tongue, self-help is sometimes very satisfying. Therefore, I suggest women use their hands AND their mouths while orally pleasuring their partner. Ladies, the mouth alone cannot provide the surface penetration needed to excite the penis. Cover the tip with your mouth, making sure to cover your teeth with your lips. Swirl the tongue around the head and shaft. Then grasp your boy’s toy so that your forefinger is touching your lips. Using your mouth and your hands in unison, begin the up and down motion. Glance up and admire his smile.

3. Ignore the “spit versus swallow” argument. Some men SWEAR that sperm swallowing is really a test used to measure the amount of trust a woman has for them. I’ll probably lose my union membership for this, but it really doesn’t matter. If you can cause the eruption, you’re a goddess. Draw the pearly white lava and we will worship your volcanoes to no end.

4. Bring the noise. Since “blowing” never really comes into play with a blowjob (well, for females, really), you’ve probably wondered where the term “hummer” comes from. Well, just like you ladies enjoy some good vibrations, we guys like the 1,200 beats-per-minute action, too. As you’re fellating away, hum a few bars from Warrant’s “Cherry Pie.” Okay, maybe a better song. In any event, vocal vibrations translate well to the penis. If you’re a real sweetheart, though, you’ll hum his favorite tune.

5.Don’t get all Hollywood. You’ve seen Kevin Smith’s “Clerks,” right? You remember the scene where America was introduced to “snowballing,” right? Forget that scene.

Obviously, no two men are alike. Different folks take different strokes — not to mention tongue patterns. If you’re really looking to deliver perfect oral pleasure, ask him to guide you through. It’ll open up your lines of communication, turn the sexual experience into a learning one — and give you an excuse to make some suggestions yourself.

Caution Alert

Just because a woman can’t get pregnant by giving head doesn’t mean oral sex is totally safe sex. Though the risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases or HIV is much lower with oral sex than with anal or vaginal sex, there still are risks. To make oral sex as safe as possible, there are a few steps you can take.According to the STD Education Unit of San Francisco Department of Public Health, for maximum protection you should use a non-lubricated latex condoms without spermicide. If you don’t like the taste, try flavored condoms. If you really don’t want to use a condom while performing oral sex on a man, the STD Education Unit suggests a few alternatives.Avoid taking cum in your mouth or leaving it in someone else’s mouth. If you get cum in your mouth, spit it out.Avoid sucking if you have bleeding gums, sores, abscessed teeth, or have just gone to the dentist. These could make it easier for HIV and STDs to enter the body. Wait until they heal.

Do not brush or floss your teeth right before or after having sex. For fresh breath, try chewing gum or rinsing with mouthwash.

Look closely for sores or blisters on the genitals, mouth or lips. If sores or blisters are visible, avoid oral sex. Remember, though, it’s not always possible to see sores or blisters.

Thanks for reading!

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Posted by imsexy24 3 years ago
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2 years ago
I got a Thick Hard Erection just reading this, "Sexy24!"
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2 years ago
so true ... no need to stress about it
2 years ago
voc e muito linda,espero q me aceite...
3 years ago
i will keep it in mined----kiss
3 years ago
Nicely done! All good advice, but don't leave out the balls. Throat is nice sometimes, but a woman who's expert at #2 is fabulous and will get a mouthful every time!
3 years ago
Not a huge fan of 'Cheaters Head' that's what we call girls that try to make up for lack of deep throating technique with hand work. No offense. This may be good for some guys but I'd rather see a chick use her mouth only and take it to the balls.
3 years ago
I just like to say, remember that the shaft is really up to fuck all compared to the head and don't completely ignore the balls they like some attention from a spare hand too.
3 years ago
Excellent work!!
3 years ago
Great tips, my wife is great but It's because we have open communication & can tell her what I like...
3 years ago
I save this blog for all my future girlfriends!:) thx for advices.
3 years ago
nice tip Ceedi!
3 years ago
thanks norrinradd!
3 years ago
Just lay your tongue over your bottom teeth instead of trying to curl the lips and your jaw won't get as tired, and you'll give a better job
3 years ago
Wow! This was awesome advice! You obviously know what you're talking about. There's a book called "Tickle His Pickle" that talks all about pleasing a penis, but you covered it all in just a few paragraphs! Nice job! :)
3 years ago
your welcome Zack-N-Miri!
3 years ago
Thank you. This is very helpfull ;-)