That was this summer. I had very long relationship and last year i got ridden of it. So I sex occasionally wit various girls till then. One night this September I was very very tired of everything. Job went finally better and some private investing also, but I had being working for 14 hours a day at time. It was About 1 am in the morning and was just went of from long shower and about to lay down on my bad.The voice from the other side of cell phone was very pleasant, some kind of baby talking voice. Voice said" Annnn' what what do want from me now?...LOL.. i said "who is this?&... Continue»
While it is never a good idea to generalize, following steps can help you get a bbw in bed.
When you see a woman you think is a BBW, remember two things about her.
She is always insecure about her body AND she knows what kinda assholes men can be (she's probably married to one).
1) Smile at her. Look into her eyes and only her eyes. No ogling her mammoth tits and ass - no matter what your cock says.
A simple, sincere smile melts her heart. It says "hello! I see you and I accept you as you are." A smile, if genuine and sincere, also disarms her and helps lowers her guard.
2) Talk to her. If you are in a grocery store, It may be a simple question like "where's the juice?". In a bar, it may be more elaborate like not having seen her before or you being there the first time or whatever - but you need to get the conversation going. Find out where she's from, what she does and why she is there? Take real interest in her. Make her feel wanted and important. She will rush through her answers and she may try to cut the conversation short because she lacks confidence and she doesn't know you. Be kind, be gentle and be firm. Be really really interested in getting to know her a bit more. Don't smile too much (it makes you look insincere or insecure) but don't be a grim reaper either.
3) Crack jokes about the situation you both find yourself in but NEVER about her or her car or her dress. If you do, her insecurity will kick in and she will try to get back into her shell. Tell her a bit about yourself but not your life story. But let her tell you her life story! Make her smile. Tell her some funny and self deprecating episode about yourself. When you allow her to laugh at you, you are dismantling her last wall of resistance. She's now comfortable with you.
4) Now is the time to move in. If you are in a bar, ask her if she'd like another drink with you. If you are in a grocery store, tell her they make excellent coffee in that same grocery store (no matter how crappy the coffee is). Drink it and keep listening to her talk. The more she talks, the more she's telling you what it takes to get her into bed.
5) Final step - time to seal the deal. You don't want to put her back on her guard. So suggest some low risk thing like getting a better coffee in a starbucks in same complex. In a bar, politely ask her if she'd like to step out so you can hear her (assuming that music is too loud inside). Once you do walk out with her, she is yours. Gently let your hand touch hers as you walk. Put a hand on her back to help her pass other people first while you follow. If she doesn't cry "ra9e", you have no reason to hold back. Hold her hand, slide your hand on her back and when the time is right, kiss her. Whisper how enamored you were since you first saw her.
I have always followed these steps and sometime I have failed. But the times I have been successful, I've had the best sex of my life. The BBW's are even more feminine than that blonde skank in the bar and she'd do anything to make you happy. She's more of a woman and she is looking forward to prove it.
Enjoy my friends and don't forget to tell us how it all went.