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Open Relationships

So I have a question for everybody here now. Who is in an open relationship? How is it working out or not working out for you and why? What ground rules do you play by and why did you go with those rules.

Help us avoid some newbie problems by telling us how it works or doesn't for you and wish us happy hunting. We officially opened up our relationship to some extent yesterday!


Posted by glassheartlady 2 years ago
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2 years ago
... my experience:
#1 both stay honest
#2 make shure that both are ready to do this
#3 to avoid jealousy: both don´t do the favorite kind of sex with number 3.
#4 do not ask stupid questions like "are you pleased" ...
glasshear...
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2 years ago
@jkck1983- that comment was more for bigarthur- but anyway just to make it clear for anyone else who reads no one on one stuff here
2 years ago
We didnt mean one on one open area hun, we just meant when u find a couple or singles to have 3sums or swing with you have to see what there into and what there likes and dislikes are. LOL, we wish you luck, cuz its not always easy there are ups and downs like we shared with you the other day hunny.
glasshear...
retired
2 years ago
Just to clarify- we are NOT wanting separate partners. I should have worded this post differently. We are looking maybe to swing some and do some 3somes and stuff. We are not open to anything that involves 1 on 1 outside of our marriage relationship.
2 years ago
Hubby here... in all honesty, it's not as great as it may seem. Main thing for me is... she is my #1, always has been, always will be. I know she feels same about me. However our relationship changed and will never be what it was once was before we went poly amorous. Maybe try threesomes before actual separate partners,?
2 years ago
Well for us it was all about the discusion. As a couple you have to lay out the ground rules and then go from there and discuss them with the other couples that you meet with. 1st and formost take it slow at 1st get to know each other and see what there likes and dislikes are and what there into and discuss the path and how you expect things to go... for example if the othere couple wants a same room swap or one on one swap just make sure all parties are comfortable with that and just go from there. And remember it doesnt happen over nite it make take time to relax and warm up to each other.
2 years ago
first of all alot of talking, make sure both like the other couple, always say what u think, never keep anything inside, never go out by yourself.