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Men of xhamster: Do yourselves a favor...

and calm the fuck down. With the ratio of men-to-women probably already sitting at 100:1 or more, why does it seem like so many of you are hell-bent on driving the remaining women off of this site?(gay men not included, of course. This isnt directed at you guys.)It seems like every week, someone on my friend list has decided to close her account, and if Im able to catch her before she does so and ask her why, 99% of the time they give the same reason: disrespectful men. And lets not forget about the tons of women who dont even last a few hours before being scared off. Guys, I understand that you may feel as if youre being ignored because she wont respond to your messages or comments, or she wont add you as a friend. I understand that some of the women here are fake, or love the massive amounts of attention that they get, or they may even be genuinely shitty people. I get it, I really do. However, theres really no excuse to send someone a message a minute, then turn around and insult/demean her when she doesnt answer right away. It is very possible that she has hundreds of messages to deal with, or literally over a thousand friend invites (seen it myself.) With so many men vying for the attention of so few women, youre going to fall by the wayside sometimes. Thats really just how it is. Throwing a tantrum like a c***d and calling someone a miserable bitch, while it may make you feel better for a fraction of a second, is, in reality, doing nothing but ensuring that more and more women leave the site. Odds are, youre misdirecting your anger and causing interesting and intelligent people to leave. It is ridiculously counter-productive, and completely flies in the face of simple logic (isnt that something that so many men pride themselves on? Being logical?) So, in short, if youve sent three messages or so, and she doesnt answer within a few hours, just calm down, back off for a day or so, and try again later. If she still doesnt talk to you, just get over it and go talk to someone else. Oh, and stop hounding the lesbians. Seriously, cut that shit out. (Apparently, xhamster blogs dont like apostrophes)
Posted by gimmecurves 4 years ago
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2 days ago
Well said
2 days ago
I agree thanks
13 days ago
Agreed. I've activated and deactivated a few times for shit like that
13 days ago
Even after 4 years, this is still true!
26 days ago
Exactly how I feel with the majority of the guys on here. Some of us are super shy, but actually intelligent human beings. Some are just a little more sensitive than others. I'm surprised I'm still here with the amount of crap I've been through but I'm trying.
29 days ago
well said hun
1 month ago
It might be 4yrs late by brother you said it and it's true these dudes are that thirsty it's pathetic
1 month ago
Sounds like we have a lot in common honey! It's nice to make guys happy! xx
1 month ago
I love it! If I make a guy horny, I don't care if he says he is straight bi or gay, I want to make him happy!
1 month ago
So true
1 month ago
Amen brother!
1 month ago
Agree..
1 month ago
I want to add this to my favorites too! I'm a teacher (middle school) and it seems that in every class there are one or two real jerky kids, in every bar I go to there are one or two real loud, obnoxious, assholes, at every concert I go to there are one or two loud, disrespectful people, they seem to be every where! What is it they say? A few spoil it for everyone! This place is no different but, I believe that for every asshole out there, there are a hundred nice people just trying to find out what thrills them, honestly! It's a shame to let a minority control a majority! Unfortunately, no asshole will ever read this because it's not their style! I just want to have fun! I guess some people think it's fun to trash another person. I just HAVE to believe they truly are a minority! So, block the bitches and bastards!
1 month ago
how rite u r !!!
1 month ago
Very well stated my friend, I wonder how many of the Jerks that this message is aimed at will even acknowledge that you are actually addressing THEM!
1 month ago
Very well put...most men who are for the occasional respectful chat has to jump through hoops to prove hes not a weirdo or a flat out asshole......so let's show these ladies some respect I personally would rather talk to a nice lady than anot her dude about fantasies and like and dislikes
1 month ago
The fakers need to be eradicated because they also make some man take the real ones like them. Lets fight for a clean xhamdter. Lets everyone report all the fakes. I have on my favs two xhamater blogs of users who r reporting the fakes and the list of fake users. I gonna post it here during next hours ;)
1 month ago
Very good text. Well said. From my part can assume sometimes did that but I'm changing my stitude. The real women unhappily have paid sometimes for the shit fakers out here. I was a bit disrespectful but I'm learning and changing my behavior. Also the messages in not bothering more with the girls that come on my room and not more appear even teasing and making me doing the thing for them as I realize some were fakes and maybe the real girls have a different behavior. In resume this a nice guide for guys behavior to not extinguish real women from x hamster. And I'm doing my role as cleaning xhamster from some fakes out here. I gonna share this post on my favs. Thx a lot
1 month ago
Good post :)
1 month ago
Makes sense to me...
2 months ago
Far too many men need a cyber beatdown. Show some fucking respect idiots...
2 months ago
I will admit that I was the same way years ago and loved getting attention from other women. But now, I don't go and bugg the crap out of women that I see because I totally get that they are busy outside of the internet and need to take care of their business elsewhere. So I totally get it that women feel pressured to answering so many mails and such. Some would weed out the bad people who pit them down for no reason. All I'm saying to all of you guys is that there are plenty of fish out on the sea and it's not the end of the world. You still have time to go out and meet other people (women) and socialize with them. And the way that I see it, there are more opportunities to do go out or be on the net and meet up with women. But you yourselves gotta behave and be cool. Show respect and respect will be given back to you. It's that plain and simple.
2 months ago
could not agree more thanks
3 months ago
well said relax and enjoy
3 months ago
It certainly has! xx
3 months ago
Straight guys just want to stick their dick in anything with tits, hair and makeup.
Anybody that looks feminine and accepts semen is a "girl" to them.
The ancient Romans didn't care about "gender," just sex.
Today our society is the same but "straight" guys don't admit it
unless they're hiding behind the Internet.
The Internet has revealed a lot about society.
3 months ago
I agree honey. I can hardly believe the amount of messages I get from so called 'straight' guys.
3 months ago
i know exactly what you're talking about.
i'm not even a woman but if u show your tits you're a target.
3 months ago
Sounds like some very good advice...personally I don't message a woman unless her profile says it's ok then if she answers me back fantastic if not that's fine also. btw good luck with the soon to be wife and family.
3 months ago
Very well said