Ok! I usually only post issues that iv'e personally experienced. I read this one in a recent article... Im very curious what men think! How much of this is accurate... Please!! men post your opinion! Im curious!!


~HE GETS AN "EYE ERECTION"~

His pupils dilate, making the black part of the eye go from small to larger, something that happens when arousal spikes.

~HE HOOKS HIS THUMBS IN HIS BELT LOOPS~

It's an attempt to highlight the crotch region and get you thinking about his junk.

~HE TOUCHES HIS NOSE A LOT~

Unless he has a cold, this could be a sign that the nerves in a guy's nose and his erectile tissue are linked.... LOL! True or False!

~HE SPEAKS MORE DEEPLY~

Iv'e notice that men lower the pitch of their voice when they're turned on.

~HE CUPS AND RUBS A WOMAN SHOULDERS!~

This is often a subconscious simulation of grabbing some tata.


~HE GOES IN FOR A HUG AND REST HIS HANDS LOW ON YOUR BACK~

It may not feel sexual, but if he lingers just above your ass, he could be craving, well, "SOME ASS" True or False guys!!

~HE BITES HIS LOWER LIP~

Dudes who do this when they're talking to you may be feeling frisky.

~DIJON SIDECAR~
2 oz. Hennessy VS cognac
1 oz. good-quality Crème de Cassis de Dijon (preferably Mathilde)
1/2 oz. fresh lemon juice.

Shake ingredients together and strain into chilled martini glass; serve with lemon twist.


~HOT BUYYERED RUM~
In a preheated coffee mug combine 2 heaping tbsp. batter with 1 1/2 oz. Mount Gay Eclipse Rum. Top with boiling water and stir well to mix. Serve with a spoon.

Hint: It is best to make the batter in advance so the spices have an opportunity to mingle. Be sure to remove batter from refrigerator at least 6 hours prior to serving to allow it to soften.


~BOLSHOI BASIL~
Both ancient Egyptians and ancient Greeks believed basil could open the gates of heaven. The good news is we don't have to wait until our souls leave our bodies to enjoy basil's sensitive warmth and subtle sweetness.

4 parts Russian Standard Vodka
3 parts fresh lime juice
3 fresh basil sprigs
2 tsp. sugar

~BAILEYS SPICED COFFEE~
2 oz. Baileys with a Hint of Coffee
1 oz. pear-flavored liqueur

Layer pear-flavored liqueur first. Then top with Baileys with a Hint of coffee. Garnish with nutmeg and a grind of seasoned pepper, and enjoy.


~BONBON OF THE VANITIES~
While martini purists may balk, everybody has a sweet tooth, and the Bonbon of the Vanities hits all the stops.

1.7 oz Russian Standard Vodka
.85 oz. banana liqueur
.85 oz. peach liqueur
2.7 oz. orange juice
.33 oz. Grenadine


~THE NINTH NIGHT~
2 oz. SKYY Infusions Citrus
1 oz. Triple Sec
1 oz. white cranberry juice
Lemon-lime soda
Lime juice

Combine SKYY Infusions Citrus, Triple Sec, and cranberry juice in a cocktail shaker with ice. Shake vigorously and strain into tall rocks glass with fresh ice. Top with soda and lots of fresh lime juice.

~GROWN-UP Gr**e SODA~
1 1/2 oz. Belvedere
1 oz. lemon juice
1 oz. simple syrup
3 oz. white cranberry juice
6 oz. Veuve Clicquot
20 red and white gr**es, frozen

Add frozen gr**es to the pitcher. Combine vodka, lemon juice, simple syrup, and white cranberry juice in a cocktail shaker with ice


~MOCHA NOG PUNCH~
10 parts Kahlúa Mocha
5 parts Absolut Vanilla
20 parts eggnog

Combine ingredients and serve in a punchbowl with a floating ice block.

Hint: Freeze ice with coffee beans for decoration.


~THE FLASH~
5 slices cucumber
3 pieces fresh kiwi
1/2 oz. fresh lemon juice
2 oz. 209 Gin
1/2 oz. organic simple syrup

In a pint glass, muddle fresh cucumber, kiwi, and lemon juice. Add ice, simple syrup, and gin. Shake vigorously and strain into stemmed cocktail glass. Garnish with sliced wheels of cucumber and kiwi.

Couples can overcome physical challenges. In the beginning, it's tough to know what your partner enjoys. So, being "off rhythm," touching the wrong spots, trying the wrong , or being a poor kisser can be fixed. Physically, you can coach each other on your likes and dislikes. After a while, you'll know what to do, and how long to do it. With work, communication, and honesty, bad sex based on physical issues can be improved.

But if it's a mental disconnect that's making sex unsatisfying, it's tougher to fix. For a good mental sexual connection, there needs to be some lust involved. In a long-term relationship, lust is rooted in the chemistry you share with your partner. It has to occur naturally. It can't be taught or intensified through conversation. Just like any other activity, sex won't be amazing every time. You're both have off days. So, don't jump to conclusions after a few bad encounters.

Finally, there is a spiritual connection that can happen during sex. This type of connection, or lack or connection, is tough to change or improve. There are many reasons that one may not be satisfied spiritually during sex. It all has to do with that person's core beliefs. People who have monogamous sex when they secretly long for multiple partners will not be spiritually satisfied. Conversely, people who are having casual sex, when they actually want a long term relationship, will feel empty. Satisfying your spiritual side sexually requires knowing what you want and working to fulfill that desire.

In my opinion, only one type of sexual "issue" can be fixed. If you're mentally or spiritually unsatisfied, you might have to think about whether you're with the right person.

Female ejaculation (commonly known as gushing, cumming or squirting refers to the expulsion of noticeable amounts of clear fluid by human females from the paraurethral ducts through and around the urethra during or before an orgasm. The exact source and nature of the fluid continues to be a topic of debate among medical professionals and is related to doubts over the existence of the G-Spot.

In questionnaire surveys, 35–50% of women report that they have at some time experienced the gushing of fluid during orgasm. Other studies find anywhere from 10–69%, depending on the definitions and methods used. For instance Kratochvíl (1994) surveyed 200 women and found that 6% reported ejaculating, an additional 13% had some experience and about 60% reported release of fluid without actual gushing. Reports on the volume of fluid expelled vary considerably from amounts that would be imperceptible to a woman, to mean values of 1–5 ml,[9] although volumes as high as one pint (473 ml) have been reported.

The suggestion that women can expel fluid from their genital area as part of sexual arousal has been described by women's health writer Rebecca Chalker as "one of the most hotly debated questions in modern sexology. Female ejaculation has been discussed in anatomical, medical, and biological literature throughout recorded history.

The urethra is lined by a thin membrane. In the lower part, near the outlet of the urinary passage, this membrane is pierced by large ducts, or lacunae, through which pituito-serous matter occasionally discharges in considerable quantities.

Between this very thin membrane and the fleshy fibres we have just described there is, along the whole duct of the urethra, a whitish membranous substance about one finger-breadth thick which completely surrounds the urethral canal... The substance could be called quite aptly the female 'prostatae' or 'corpus glandulosum' 'glandulous body'...The function of the 'prostatae' is to generate a pituito-serous juice which makes women more libidinous with its pungency and saltiness and lubricates their sexual parts in agreeable fashion during coitus.
The discharge from the female 'prostatae' causes as much pleasure as does that from the male 'prostatae'

He identified the various controversies regarding the ejaculate and its origin, but stated he believed that this fluid "which rushes out with such impetus during venereal combat or libidinous imagining" was derived from a number of sources, including the vagina, urinary tract, cervix and uterus. He appears to identify Skene's ducts, when he writes those [ducts] which are visible around the orifice of the neck of the vagina and the outlet of the urinary passage receive their fluid from the female 'parastatae', or rather the thick membranous body around the urinary passage." However he appears not to distinguish between the lubrication of the perineum during arousal and an orgasmic ejaculate when he refers to liquid "which in libidinous women often rushes out at the mere sight of a handsome man".......


TO BE CONTINUED!!!!!

1) Ladies, reach into your panties, then touch his lips with your wetness.... Mmmmmm....

2) Ok ladies, men have nipples too and there a lot more sensitive than you'd think. Graze them with your teeth while your hands tease his package!!!!

3) Hold his tongue in place while tickling the tip with your tongue!! Very electrifying.......

4) Pretend not to want to kiss him... Then guys, use your tongue to pry her mouth open passionately!!!

5) Ladies, have your man lie on his stomach, then wet the skin below his butt with your tongue.... "Blow on it" Damn!

6) When your man puts his finger up in you ladies! Insert one of yours too... So the two of you could play/feel in there together! Now he knows your really into it!!

7) Ladies, that groove on the back of your man neck above his spine... Suck on it during a make-out-session... He will be on before you know it!!!

8) Go down on him ladies, but keep your hands behind your back so you grip him only with your lips!!! Very Sexy!!

9) Try the 69 twist, he's on top giving oral to you ladies but instead of using your mouth ladies let him slide his penis between your breasts......

10) Bed dance: ladies, have your man lie on his back while you slowly work your way down on his chest, stomach and finally his Penis!!! lol feeling hot! hot! hot!

11) Play with the area between the guy's navel and his penis... Lick it, tickle it, or gently tug the hairs there......The erogenous zone!

12) Men, place ice cubes on the curves of her breasts and hips. As the cubes melt, they leave a trail of cool water which you then trace with your tongue.

13) Sneak up on me from behind while my legs are closed! Lick on those lips peeking out between my legs until i start to lift my legs! Please dont stop until i open my legs "GO TO WORK" Lick, Suck! F%%k!

~TALK DIRTY TO HIM~

Start off with a purr or an mmmm:)O, or simply breathe heavily. Then up the erotic ante by whispering, "So...what do you want to do now?"

~PLAY NO HANDS NOOKY~

Tell him to keep his hands to himself. Explore each other's bodies with your lips, tongues, and breath

~TAUNT HIM~

A little torture builds a man's anticipation so that when you finally do pounce, every touch is extra delicious. As things get going, pull your thong aside for him to enter you. You'll drive him crazy because he can see every last inch of your body

~ENLIGHTEN HIM~

Tantra is the exotic art of prolonging your passion to reach new levels of satisfaction. Start your night of lust by gently massaging his ear with your fingertips, working your way down the outer fold. Then run your pinkie along the crease where his ear connects to his head and ever-so-slowly prod the middle of his sexually susceptible inner ear with the tip of your tongue.

~GET DIRTY WITH HIM IN THE TUB~

A soak in the tub always feels incredible, but the sensual thrills quadruple when you invite your man in for some rub-a-dub action. Take turns slowly lathering each other up with a soft, natural sea sponge, tracing slow, sexy circles around your breasts, belly, and inner thighs, and get ready to fog up the mirror.

~TIE HIM UP~

Even a plain scarf can make him see stars if you use the right technique. Take a long silk wrap, place it around his main man and the boys, and tie it in a large square knot, leaving about a foot of fabric on either end to hold on to. As you're riding him, pull on the free ends so that the knot rubs against your clitoris. OMG YESSS! YESSS! THIS FEELS SOOOO GOOD!

~INPLY THAT HE'S A STUD~

Spark his ego by letting him know you want him sexually with a coy compliment. Letting him in on your longing for him jump-starts his own desire.

~MAKE HIM HOT, THEN COLD~

Cooling off your mans steamy body actually gets him hotter. Make his satisfaction skyrocket by turning him on to deliciously unexpected strokes, pressure, and temperature changes. Try the classic ice-cube trick to make him shiver with excitement. Have him lie on his back, hold a cube in your hand, and slowly draw an icy line from his neck all the way down his body.

~SEDUCE HIM~

Be direct by saying something like "I want to have sex with you." The straight forward approach is not merely about saving time (although it does have a way of cutting to the chase), it's about giving yourself the opportunity to display extreme sexual confidence, to advertise yourself as a person who assumes that whatever she wants, she can have.

~TOY WITH HIM~

Im not big on sex toys. But, if it spices up the mood and my man! Then im down with it. Velvet-lined handcuffs can be exciting, and they don't hurt like the metal ones do. And you can never go wrong with a vibrator. Ask him to buzz it against your clitoris or tell him simply to sit back and watch you handle it. Mmmmmmmm!!!

~REV HIM UP FOR ROUND 2~

Your mattress moves are sizzling enough for a sequel! Lead him back to the sweet spot by telling him how good he makes you feel. And, this time your orgasm will be even hotter.

~LET HIM CLIMB ON TOP~

Spice up missionary style and feel superdeep penetration by drawing your knees toward your chest and grasping the back of your thighs. You can also place the soles of your feet on his chest or, if you're really flexible, prop your ankles or legs up on his shoulders. Please, be very careful!!!

~PLAY ROUGH~

Guys tend to be tougher than us women, so feel free to manhandle. Pinch his nipples (an often-overlooked nerve center), scratch your nails down his back, or massage his chest.

Enjoy!!!!

~SNEAK UP BEHIND HIM~

Blow his mind with this sneaky move: Stand behind him and stroke his penis while naked. Positions your palm flat against his penis sensitive underside, the same way he grips it when he masturbates. Then do a few things he can't do himself, like whisper in his ear or kiss his back.

~LET HIM BE AN a****l~

Initiate a primal move that fuels his frisky craving. Give him an a****listic challenge by having standing sex. Let him hold you up against the wall with your legs wrapped around his lower back. He'll be in the aggressor role since he's holding you up with his arms and lower bod, and he also gets the visual thrill of watching your breasts bounce during the act.

~BREAK OUT THE BLINDFOLD~

Once you have him going crazy not knowing where your next lick, kiss, or stroke will land, treat your blindfolded boy to a slew of new sensations. Three to try: the feel of your hair, silk panties, or a string of pearls rubbed gently against his penis.

~FIND HIS G-SPOT~

A guy's prostate — the walnut-size gland under his bladder — is the ultimate magic buttonto push if you want to blow his mind in bed. To tantalize it, partway through oral sex or intercourse, rest two fingers against the swath of skin between his testicles and anus.

~GIVE HIM A NEW NUMBER~

You're intimately acquainted with 69. Now let me introduce you to 77? The number refers to the way you and your partner's bodies look when they meld together in this side-entry position. The unique angling practically guides his, uh, missile to your G-spot.

~FIND A NEW FAVORITE SPOT~

Steam things up at home by moving outside the bedroom and doing it on top of a sturdy table, kitchen counter, bathroom sink, or hood of a car that's parked in your garage.

~MASSAGE HIS BACKSIDE~

Take oral sex to a whole new level by caressing his butt cheeks as you're going down on him. Double his pleasure with the synchronized motions that let you control the pacing.

~TURN HIM INTO A BUFFET~

Incorporating food into your passion play is a classic carnal activity. Take a few of your favorite erotically appealing flavor combinations, like peanut butter and honey or whipped cream and chocolate sauce, and mix up yummy treats all over his body.

~BOSS HIM AROUND~

Tell him what you want him to do without saying a word. Wrap your hand around one of his fingers or his penis, and when he does something you particularly like, give a squeeze.

~GIVE HIM A PEEP SHOW~

Turn your attention downstairs for some self-stimulation and leave the invitation open for him to take over. Whether he joins in or not, guys love to watch, so it's a win-win situation.

~MAKE HIM BEG~

Kiss and lick your way down his torso, stopping short of his penis, then give him a smile and work your way back up. Repeat several times until he begs for mercy!!!!

~TREAT HIM TO DON'T-LIFT-A-FINGER SEX~

Indulge him with low-maintenance sex (where all he has to do is unzip his fly, if that) by sliding onto his lap in reverse cowgirl position with your hands balanced on his thighs for support. Much like doggie-style, he'll be able to revel in watching your tush and touching your breasts, but without expending any lower-body energy.

Although every guy will have his own unique technique preferences for you to play out, there are some underlying can't-go-wrong guidelines that will make any man mad with desire. The secret is knowing how to give him a series of allover tantalizing touches & following his cues on how to turn his whole body into an erogenous zone. So here's how to master the basic must-know guy-groping methods — I promise he'll worship you.

~MIX IT UP~

Want to keep his body from getting bored? "If one area gets too much stimulation, you become desensitized to the feeling... It's easy to tell if he's had enough. "When he's responding fully, his skin will jump or the muscles will quiver slightly under your touch... explains "If he's completely still, that's your cue to move on for a few minutes before touching that place again."

i found that teasing my man's penis adds to his excitement. "Of course, he loves for me to give him a hand job, but I found out that I can drive his excitement level way higher if I switch spots. I'll touch his penis enough for him to get worked up, then I'll stop that and start tracing my fingers down his stomach or up his lower legs. He says that when I finally get back to ground zero after my detour, he's twice as sensitive to my touch — and twice as turned on." Ummmm Mmmmmm! :)

Divvying up your manual moves between two different spots on his body is another way to double his pleasure. "Using each hand in a different place gives him an exciting, tantalizing feeling. "Besides the simple fact that you're stimulating more nerve endings, the separate sensations also create twice the anticipation. "Whenever I give oral sex, I touch him in different places around his body as well. I keep one hand either around his penis or touching his twins, and I use my other hand to scratch his inner thighs or stroke his butt. He says it feels like he's with two women at once!"

~WHEN IN DOUBT PRESS HARDER~

The amount of hands-on pressure that would make a woman say "Ouch" will likely make him say "Ooooh, yeah." "Men's skin tends to be thicker, plus their nerve endings aren't as close to the skin's surface as women's are, so what might seem overly aggressive to you probably feels just right to him. So show him your strength — on his back, for starters. Try kneeling beside him while you lean your body weight onto one closed fist pressed on his back, then rock your body back and forth.

Guys are always so protective of their whole groin area. I always thought of it as a really delicate spot! But one night, I was touching an my man and he told me I could grip a little tighter. So I kept increasing the pressure until my fingers were locked around him. Even though I was afraid I was hurting him, or gripping to hard, he says that it feels incredible. It's okay to go for the firm hold. "Don't be afraid to go beyond using your fingertips. The penis shaft is usually more responsive to an encompassing full-hand hold."

~TURN HIM ON WITH GIVE-&-TAKE~

Ladies, as much as your guy will groove on your hand skills, his experience isn't erotically complete until he gets his mitts on you. "It's infinitely more exciting for a man to be touched if he's touching his partner simultaneously. "For many men, just caressing your breasts is a turn-on unto itself." Plus, guys love to be active in the sack — seeing that they're turning you on is one of their most basic sexual thrills. I tried making my fella lie back while I took control of pleasing him. He'd start squirming after two minutes, then roll over and grab me. I realized that if I straddled him and let him run his hands over my breasts and butt while I worked on him, he'd be happy to lie there forever!

~APPROACH THE BIG O SLOWLY~

When you're on a roll, you don't want him to climax too quickly and call a halt to the night(i.e., fall asl**p) before you get any action in return! So when you sense that he's reaching his pleasure peak (thrusting hips, curling toes, and sweating all indicate that he's close to climax), back off, slow down and lighten up. "Stop touching him for 30 seconds or so. "That's enough time for most men to lose the sense of urgency that they're about to climax." But once you've brought him back from the edge (he'll likely lie still and breathe more slowly), don't unplug his desire entirely.

Instead, this is the time to seek out his sweetest spot. Every man will have one secret, undiscovered hot zone that sends him through the roof. Finding out what turns your guy on can be a pleasure treasure hunt. Some surprising spots to try: the backs of his knees or neck, his nipples, or the place where his arms and legs join his body.

Once you find and tickle that trigger enough to bring him this close to climax, drop everything to focus on what's a guaranteed home-run zone on every guy: his frenulum, the place on the underside of his penis where the foreskin attaches to the head. This ultrasensitive spot is like a male clitoris — packed with nerve endings, it's a no-fail big-O instigator. Continue using the standard up-and-down motion, but with every stroke, add a little extra pressure from your fingers on his frenulum until he climaxes. "When he's getting close to climaxing, tease him by taking each stroke halfway up the shaft. But when he gets to the point where he can't take it anymore, zone in on the ridge of his penis!!!

~FEET~ Titillate his tootsies by stimulating their tightly packed nerves. Soak his feet in warm, soapy water, then slide your pinkie or index finger into the crease between his big and second toes and, twisting your hand from side to side in a "so-so" gesture, run your finger all the way into the V and back out. Repeat on each toe.

~THIGHS~ The proximity to his penis makes this stroke superarousing. Facing his head, straddle his lower legs, and, adding a drop of massage oil, place your hands on his thigh so one palm is above the other. Slide your hands all the way up his leg. When you hit his pelvis, move one hand to his inner thigh and one to his outer thigh, then pull your hands all the way back to his knees. Switch legs.

~BUTT~ To totally relax his lower-body tension, look for the groove in the outer portions where his butt meets his leg. Straddle his legs and gradually press each of your knees into his derriere dents for one or two minutes.

HOPE YOU ENJOY!!

Have your guy lie on his back and, facing his feet, straddle him with your knees on either side of his hips. Or, if it's more comfortable, squat over him with your feet flat on the bed. When he's nice and hard (and you're well lubricated), place one hand on the bed or his legs to steady yourself, as you hold the base of his penis with your other hand, and slowly lower yourself onto him.

Once he's securely inside of you, start moving up and down, using your leg muscles to build momentum. You can help maintain your balance by placing your hands in front of you (on his legs or the bed), or reach back and put your hands on his thighs. One of the major perks of any girl-on-top position: You're in control, so mix things up and do whatever feels best. You can vary the speed and depth of penetration. Or play with your movements by gyrating back and forth or in circles instead of just up and down. At some point, try arching your back, which allows his penis to stimulate your G-spot. And, since you have easy access to your clitoris, give yourself a hand if you need it.

Reverse cowgirl offers some benefits for your man as well. For starters, he gets some sweet eye candy with that amazing view of your butt. And you'll really turn him on if you play with his testicles as you grind him. Guys also get off on females taking charge, but that doesn't mean that you have to do all the work. If you start getting tired, have him wrap his hands around your hips to help with the thrusting. But make sure you don't bounce too hard or lean too far forward, or you could cause some serious damage to his manhood. And if he happens to slip out at any point, simply put him back in and keep going!!! Ride That Horsey!!!HEE HAW.... (Sex Position Photo #1)

Climaxing within seconds of each other is one of the most gratifying sexual encounters you can have. "Every sensation is amplified since you're experiencing it in tandem." But it can be tricky to pull off. If you want to set the stage for this erotic experience, KEEP READING!

ROADBLOCK 1: You Only Climax Via Oral/Manual Pleasure

To orgasm à deux, you need to learn to climax when you have intercourse. "It may be easier to peak during oral and manual because he's focused on your clitoris. In many positions, you won't achieve clitoral stimulation unless you consciously create contact. Plus, as he's touching you, you can guide him or take matters into your own hands for C-spot stimulation.

To orgasm through intercourse, recreate the sensations you feel during oral and manual action. Use extra lube to imitate the warmth and wetness of his mouth. Also, start slowly. "Let him enter you only halfway in the beginning, simulating the shallow penetration from his mouth or hands...

As he goes deeper, touch yourself so you're stimulated on the inside and outside. With a little practice, climaxing during intercourse will come naturally.

Since men tend to climax faster than women do (most women need 10 to 20 minutes to peak via intercourse; most men need two), get a head start. Have him tantalize you manually or orally for 10 minutes so you're close to the edge.

Once you're ready for intercourse, opt for woman-on-top to control the pace. "Rub your clitoris in circles to get more bl**d flowing there. If he's nearing the O zone too quickly, "pull out so only the tip of his penis is in you, and make shallow movements. This downshifts his arousal while giving you intense clitoral stimulation.

If he's just moments away, stop having sex, and gently squeeze the head of his penis for five seconds. "Squeezing halts the bl**d flow to his penis, abating arousal."

WHAT IF HE STILL BLAST OFF BEFORE YOU?

Don't give up or get discouraged if the timing's off the first or even fifth time. The more often you try climaxing together, the easier it will become.

A hummer is an oral sex technique where you literally hum, creating spine-tingly vibrations, while going down on your man. You don't have to keep it up for the entire below-the-belt session. And unless you both want a good laugh, I don't recommend humming a song. But if you add this erotic embellishment to your usual repertoire of licking and sucking, you'll blow his mind.

It's easy to do. Simply make "mmmm" sounds for a few seconds at a time in a smooth, steady tone as you move your mouth up and down his shaft. Varying the pitch of your voice creates different sensations: Lower pitches create slower vibrations; higher pitches create faster ones. Also, the vibrations are most intense at the opening of your mouth, so if you really want to make him explode, focus on the supersensitive head of his penis with your lips.

No matter who is going down on whom, the goal is to make it as pleasure filled as possible. Here are the best tricks for giving your guy/lady lip lovin'. Oh, and ladies a few tips for you to pass along to him, so he gives as good as he gets.

~INVISIBLE ORAL CAN BOOST YOUR PLEASURE~

A shocking number of women have trouble mentally letting go and enjoying oral. Sound like you? Try keeping the lights off so you can't see him. You'll have fewer distractions and be able to focus.

~THERES A GAG-PROOF WAY TO GO DEEP~

Here's a trick that gives him the illusion that you're taking him all the way in: Place the tip of your tongue on the roof of your mouth. Then let his member hit the underside of your tongue.

~YOU SHOULD HAVE HIM AT HELLO~

Guys say they wish that there girl/woman would surprise them with oral when they walk in the door. Tell him to text you when he's almost home, then ambush him.

~SUCTION ISN'T JUST FOR HICKIES~

A lot of us women have a hard time getting off while he's down south because some guys/men don't use enough pressure. Ask him to switch up his moves and try sucking on your clitoris instead—it provides a more intense pressure.

~HIS "BOYS" WANT TO JOIN THE PARTY~

Don't ignore the balls during oral. Try this trick: While your hand strokes his shaft, take one testicle at a time into your mouth and lightly suck.

~THERE'S A WAY HE'S NEVER BEEN LICKED~

The meatus—the hole on the tip of his penis—is supersensitive. Stick the tip of your tongue on that spot and apply medium pressure. It's such a specific place, he probably doesn't even realize it has feel-good potential, so he'll love that you've discovered it.

~LUBE CAN TASTE GOOD~

If you're going to be down there for a while, you may get a case of cotton mouth, which can cause chafing on his penis. Lube can fix that. Lots of companies are making flavored formulas that taste just slightly fruity or minty, not like candy-coated toxic waste. ~I place a piece of altoid in my mouth and BLOWWWWW!

~IF YOUR INTO IT, HE'S INTO IT~

One thing that turns guys on is enthusiasm. In fact, lots of them have a hard time fully enjoying themselves because they worry that their partner hates being down there. Let him know you like it by softly moaning as you take him into your mouth. Ummmmm Hmmmmm :)O


~LADIES HOW TO PERSUADE YOUR MAN TO RETURN THE FAVOR~

If your guy doesn't always dive headfirst between your legs, it's time to drop a serious hint.

~CONDUCT A TASTE TEST~

Pick up flavored lube samples, then tell your guy you want him to find out which tastes best on you.

~TALK IT UP~

Since guys get off on getting you off, say "I can't stop thinking about the last time you went down on me."

Though most commonly used by women, men can also use Kegel exercises. They are used to strengthen the pubococcygeal muscle and other muscles of the pelvic diaphragm. Kegels can help men achieve stronger erections and gain greater control over ejaculation. The object of this may be similar to that of the exercise in women with weakened pelvic floor: to increase bladder and bowel control and sexual function.

There are said to be significant benefits for the problem of premature ejaculation from having more muscular control of the pelvis. It is also possible that strengthening the pelvic floor may allow some men to achieve a form of orgasm without allowing ejaculation, and thereby perhaps reach multiple "climaxes" during sexual activity.[citation needed] In men, this exercise lifts up the testicles, also strengthening the cremaster muscle as well as the anal sphincter, as the anus is the main area contracted when a Kegel is done. This is because the pubococcygeus muscle begins around the anus and runs up to the urinary sphincter. Men should be patient when they begin Kegel exercises as it may take 4 to 6 weeks to see a substantial difference.

Controlling ejaculation is a huge issue for many men, one that they are often too embarrassed to bring up. How do I control myself? How can I last longer, be firmer and do better? The answer is working out your pubococcygeus muscles (PC) muscles, by doing Kegel exercises for men.

PC muscles control the flow of semen and urine, the firmness of your penis during erection and the shooting power of your ejaculation. They are important, and if kept very strong, will see you into your golden years with a fantastical hard on. The great thing about Kegel exercises for men is that you can do them anywhere, anytime -- and nobody will know the difference.

~How do I know where my PC muscles are~

The easiest way to find them is to stop your flow of urine next time you go to the bathroom. Another way to isolate them is to put your finger inside your anus; when you contract the right muscles, your anus will tighten. However you decide to find them, once they are found you need to practice feeling exactly where they are located -- it is easy to overcompensate for weak muscles by using the abdominals, buttocks or thighs. These must all stay relaxed when doing Kegel exercises for men.


~HOW DO YOU START YOUR PELVIC MUSCLE TRAINING?~

At first you may need to perform these exercises while sitting. As the muscles strengthen you can progress to exercise standing up. Like any activity, start with what you can achieve and progress from there. Remember to use your muscles whenever you exert yourself during your daily activities.

If you can feel the muscles working, exercise them by:

1) Squeezing / tightening and drawing in and up around both your anus (back passage) and urethra (bladder outlet). Lift up inside and try to hold this contraction strongly for as long as you can (1 - 10 seconds). Keep breathing! Now release and relax. You should have a definite feeling of letting go.

2) Rest 10 - 20 seconds - repeat Step 1, and remember it is important to rest. If you find it easy to hold, try to hold longer and repeat as many as you are able. Work towards 12 long, strong holds.

3) Now try 5 - 10 short, fast strong contractions.
do NOT hold your breath
do NOT push down instead of squeeze and lift
do NOT pull your tummy in tightly
do NOT tighten your buttocks and thighs.

You will be able to have better sex by being able to better control your orgasms and ejaculations, and last for longer, plus you may get the added kudos of being able to hold up a wet towel with your erection if you practice these Kegel exercises for men!

If you’re bored with the standard woman-on-top pose, this position is a fun, frisky way to mix things up. Your guy lies on his back, one leg outstretched and the other bent, knee pointing upward. You straddle his body sideways with your back turned slightly to his face, hold on to his knee, and lower yourself onto his penis. In this pose, your stomach is almost touching his bent knee; use it for support and leverage as you rock back and forth, and up and down.

The steady rocking motion and thrusting create a pleasure buildup that primes the woman for the Big O. And you can thrill him by wrapping your hands around his legs and treat him to a titillating thigh massage or scrotum (balls). Gently knead those over-worked muscles then stroke his skin from knee to groin using firm feel-good pressure.

If the sexual honeymoon's over and you're tired of busting out the same three moves, it's time to spice it up. Try any one of these, or go buck wild with a personalized combo routine. Warning!Proceed with caution. These are not your run-of-the-mill, been there, done that sex positions.


~THE SCHOOL HOUSE ROCK~

First find a chair with a sturdy back, have him sit facing forward. Straddle him with your feet on the floor, slowly lowering yourself onto his erection with your knees bent at a ninety-degree angle. Once he’s fully penetrated you, begin to slowly rock back and fort...(Sex Position Picture #31)

~STAND AND DELIVER~

He remains standing and lifts you up so that you can wrap your legs around his waist. From there he’ll cup your buttock and slowly move to enter you, controlling the depth of penetration. For balance, have him stand near a bed or a wall. This position is great for women who like it when their partners are in control—and have some serious upper body strength.....YES! YES! YES! JUST BE VERY CAREFUL!(Sex Position Picture#43)

~THE SEXY MARIONETTE~

Stand facing a wall, as if you’re about to be strip-searched, placing both hands slightly above your head. Then slowly slide down the wall, falling forward from the waist—like a marionette (PUPPET) with slack strings. He’ll keep you steady by holding your hips firmly, as he thrusts from behind. This position requires a little stamina and flexibility, but it's well worth the effort. KEEP THE HANDCUFFS NEAR! LOL

~THE MIRROR IMAGE~

Straddle his lap, facing him. Once he’s inside you, have him sit up so you’re face-to-face. Then, wrap your legs around each other’s backs and link your elbows under each other’s knees, crating a mirror image of each other. Hold on to each other tightly as roll back and forth. This position allows the two of you to be completely wrapped up in one another, stimulating all your body parts at once, and his! (Sex position picture#34)

~THE GREYHOUND~

Lay on the bed on your stomach with your legs spread out. Have him kneel between your legs and lift you by the hips until he’s able to enter you, keeping as much of your body on the bed as possible. In essence, your entire body is being stretched out for him and the elongated angel will tighten your vagina,(KEGELS) proving a very snug fit..... (Sex position picture #6)

~THE SLING~

Stand and face each other, then slowly lift one leg until he can slide his arm underneath it to hold it in the air. He can raise or lower his arm to make this position as comfortable and pleasurable as possible for you. If you happen to be very flexible, he can raise your leg high, possibly to his shoulder, creating a very open pose. This position gives both of you the opportunity to stoke each other for a little extra stimulation. (Sexual Position picture #35)

~THE WIDE ANGLE~

Have him kneel in front of you then slowly sit on him, locking you’re legs around his back. Once he’s in position, lean back. He can support you by warping one of his arms around you, with the other he can stimulate you clitoraly. This position gives you more control of rhythm and speed than missionary and it gives him a great view of your breasts...a win-win for everyone..... (Sex Position Picture #66)

~THE WHEELBARROW~

This an advanced position that works best when your already in the Marionette or Greyhound position. After he’s entered you from behind with his hands on your waist, have him lift one of your legs—or both—and rest your hand or forearms on the floor. The Wheelbarrow is incredibly erotic and allows him to see all of you at once, but can be exhausting. We recommend only holding the position for a few, or the final few, thrusts. Please Please be very careful! Enjoy! (Sex Position position#17)

The Karma Sutra contains dozens of positions, but a few people still stick to a basics. No problem! Here are a few tips on how to enhance those moves.... Enjoy!

~MISSIONARY~
Place a pillow underneath your butt. Instead of simply lying back as he thrusts in and out of you, sit up halfway, lift your butt, and then slowly lean backward. Repeat until one of you climaxes.

~WOMAN ON TOP~
Move your body in small circles as you lift and lower your pelvis. Have him sit up, with his legs straight out in front of him. Lower yourself onto his penis and sit with your knees bent, facing him, with your feet flat on the floor.

~DOGGIE STYLE~
Rather than kneel, lie facedown on the bed, with your legs spread. He lies on your back and penetrates you from behind. Try having him stand behind you while you gradually—and carefully!—lean forward until your hands touch the floor.

~SIDE-BY-SIDE~
Grind your body against his penis, bending from the waist and moving your upper torso downward. Reach around to fondle him while he’s moving in and out of you.

Now, go get you some ass! Squeeze some tits! And eat some pussy! Enjoy!

~FROZEN PUSSY~

1) Is a very common method to keep a pussy young and fresh. This is how it works: Whenever her pussy is not required for sex, press a huge piece of ice against her pussy. Remove 20 minutes before sex and put the ice back immediatly after sex. Keeping her pussy on ice for 23 hours a day will work like a freezer works for fresh meat: It will stay fresh forever! Even when your marriage reaches it's 50th anniversary her pussy will still look and feel like the pussy of an 18 years old chick. Unfortunately, this method only works for pussies and not for penises as those tend to fall off if kept under ice.


HINT: If there is no ice available for a limited time, she can also use a cold bottle of soda or beer! It will at least keep her pussy in a semi-frozen state, also known as "sorbet pussy". Frozen pussy can be combined with ice nipples. A special form of (frozen pussy) is the iced pussy.

~NIPPLES~

1) The most sensitive part of the tits are the NIPPLES!

~NIPPLE MASTURBATION~

2) Nipple masturbation is a method of female masturbation, where she focuses on nipple stimulation only to reach a nipple orgasm.

During nipple masturbation she typcially uses both of her hands to stimulate both nipples simultaneously by nipple tweaking and pulling nipples. In order to reach a higher level of nipple self-stimulation, she might add the following options:
*A nipple pump during the initial phase to fully erect her nipples for nipple masturbation
*She might tie her nipples to increase sensitivity of her nipples
*She might ice her nipples to increase sensations
*She might apply nipple clothespins to increase sensations

If her breast size allows her to reach her nipples with her mouth, she usually adds oral stimulation of her nipples to her nipple masturbation routine. It can be either selflicking or sucking on her own nipples or a combination of both.

The level of self-stimulation of her nipples is intensified until she reaches her nipple orgasm. Yes! Yes! Yes!

~NIPPLE BATTLE~

3) Nipple battle or Nipple war: The art of two women fencing with their nipples and a popular party game as well as a standard erotic pose for girl on girl photos. Ideally, they will fluff each other's nipples before battle. Basically two girl rub one or both of their nipples against the other girl's nipple(s).

~NIPPLE TORTURE~

4) Nipple torture refers to sexual activities which highly stimulate nipples and areola, sometimes but not necessarily inflicting mild forms of pain. Until 20 years ago any type of nipple torture was considered BDSM(Bondage and Discipline, Domination and Submission , Sadomasochism) while these days nipple torture has become popular and normal. In other words: Nipple torture is the exreme form of nipple stimulation. Nipple torture can be performed by the partner as well by the girl herself during masturbation. The goal is to produce extreme erotic feeing by nipple stimulation: Some girls describe it as a kind of sensual radiation originating from the nipples. Basically most methods of nipple torture effect the bl**d flow within the sensitive nipples which leads to modified signals from the nerves located in her nipples.

The most common and popular nipple torture methods are:
Nipple torture by applying nipple clothespins
Nipple pumping
Nipple clamps
Tied nipples

~ICED NIPPLES~

5) Ice nipples A type of nipple stimulation. It is stimulating the nipple and areola with ice. The first effect of the ice will be numb nipples followed by sensations when the nipples receive more bl**d to compensate for the loss of body temperature. This effect can be extended by sucking on her nipples after the nipples where ‘iced' or during female masturbation by selflicking or Suck on her own nipples. Ice on nipples can be combined with frozen pussy.

~NIPPLE STIMULATION~

6) Nipple stimulation is any type of action focusing on the nipples which leads to erected nipples and pleasurable or erotic feelings.

Nipples have many nerve endings and are very sensitive. Some women can even experience an orgasm from nipple stimulation alone. During masturbation many females employ nipple stimulation to elevate their erotic feelings or to enhance their orgasmic experience (see Nip&Clit_Masturbation). Nipple stimulation is also a part of lesbian or hetero sexual activities. Some ladies are able to climax through pure nipple stimulation, called reaching a nipple orgasm. Self-stimulation of her nipples is called nipple masturbation. The extreme form of nipple stimulation is called nipple torture.

~COMMOM METHODS OF NIPPLE STIMULATION~

*Remember: Not all females enjoy nipple stimulation. Some nipples are too sensitive, some are not sensitive at all)
*Nipple tweaking: Rubbing the nipple between thumb and first finger.
*Nipple licking: Oral stimulation of the nipples.
*Pulling nipple: Manual stimulation of the nipples. Also known as "nipple tugging"
*Nipple pinching: Applying pressure to her nipples.
*Suck nipples: To suck on her nipples.
*Suck on her own boobs : She sucks on her own boobs
*Nipple pumping: Applying low pressure to erect nipples and to keep them erect.
*Nipple rings: Used to keep erect nipples erect.
*Nipple clamps or nipple chain: A sex toy to squeeze nipples.
*Nipple clothespins: Another sex toy to squeeze nipples.
*Tied nipples: Also called Nipple Bondage.
*Tuning in Tokyo: Type of nipple stimulation.
*Tug: Type of nipple stimulation.
*Selflicking: Type of nipple stimulation.
*Nipple battle: Nipple vs nipple.
*Suck on her own nipples: Sucking on her own nipples or tits
*Ice nipples: Applying ice on her nipples
*DTS: Double Tit Sucking
*Nipple stretchers: Stretching her nipples with nipple jewelry.
*Nipple shields: Another type of stimulating nipple piercing..

~ENJOY!~

~Public female Masturbation~ is the logical add-on activity to public exhibitionism: Instead of "only" showing off nude facts the female starts to masturbate at locations with no or limited privacy.

Public masturbation is mostly done at locations where it is unlikely to be seen - otherwise it is more an element of very aggressive exhibitionism. The thought that someone might be watching and that she is exposed during masturbation, gives some females additional mental stimulation or simply sexual thrills. Public masturbation usually includes her stimulating her pussy, e.g. her clit. Typically the masturbating lady selects a location where she might be spotted and not a location where she will be spotted. Those places can be: the passenger or driver seat of a car, a balcony, a window, a beach. Also in most cases the location can be seen but not be accessed easily, meaning that the masturbating lady keeps the spectators out of direct access to her body. Public masturbation might lead to public fucking or might be accompanied by her giving him a public handjob.

~Public male masturbation is likely to get you arrested and labeled a pervert.~ Awwwww!

~COMMON LOCATIONS FOR PUBLIC MASTURBATION~

(1) PUBLIC MASTURBATION IN CARS!

This seems to be one of the most popular locations for public masturbation. The masturbating female can be the driver or codriver of the car. When a female driver masturbates, her actions are almost hidden, while a masturbating codriver has more options to let bypassing cars and especially trucks know about her ongoing masturbation. When masturbating while driving, she usually uses her hands and fingers only, while a masturbating codriver might use sex toys. Public masturbation in cars can be combined with flashing truckers. Public masturbation in cars is also discussed under mobile masturbation.

(2) PUBLIC MASTURBATION BEHIND A WINDOW!

Another common type of public masturbation is to position yourself behind a window (quite often the window of a hotel room) and to start masturbation activities. The most extreme type of masturbating behind a window is to attach a suction cup dildo to the window. This activity is called window fuck.

(3) PUBLIC MASTURBATION WHILE SUNBATHING!

Public Masturbation while sunbathing is another common method. Masturbating ladies have been spotted on all kind of beaches including topless beaches and nude beaches and depending on the location the masturbating girl wears a bikini, a bikini bottom only or nothing. Ideally she has a partner with her to let her know if she has been spotted. Being told someone is watching can bring on an almost instant climax. He should also take some photos!

(4) CROSSED LEGS MASTURBATION!

Women Masturbating in public places by crossing their legs and squeezing the thighs together. Mmmmmmmm Hmmmmmmmmm....


(5)BEACHES!
(6)BALCONIES!
(7)TRAINS!

~PUSSY JUICE~ Natural lubrication produced inside a pussy before and during sex producing a so called wet pussy.

~CAUTION~ Sometimes pussy juice is not what you think it is. It can also be the jizz of the guy who fucked your girl an hour ago without you knowing about it. The chemical test to distinguish pussy juice from left-over cum is simple: Pussy juice is sour ([pH between 4.5 and 5) while cum is neutral or higher (pH 7 and higher). The pH of a pussy can easily be measured using litmus paper as an indicator.

The amount of pussy juice produced by girls is different: Some girls do hardly produce enough pussy juice for pussy lubrication while others start dripping. As far as the authors of this article know, you cannot buy pussy juice neither auction or sell pussy juice, although it would not be too difficult to bottle pussy juice. If you would like to taste your girls pussy juice all you need to do is to start EATING HER PUSSY. Mmmmmmmm:)o


~FACTS ABOUT PUSSY JUICE~

1) Pussy juice has very few calories. Its chemical composition is somewhat similar to vinegar which contributes to its sometimes bitter taste; some think it just tastes divine. Unfortunately, there are not enough nutrients to survive solely on pussy juice.

2) Every pussy tastes somehow different, mainly dependent on what the owner of the pussy ate within the prior 48 hours. Common pussy taste is described as: buttery, sour, bitter, lemony, sweet, salty but not too salty, fishy and tangy.

3) Pussy juice is the cause for so called wet spots on panties and pants and sheets most commonly.

4) Pussy juice is one of the causes for the individual pussy smell.



~PUSSY JUICE CONTAIN~

1) Lots of Water

2) Pyridine: An organic compound with a typical fishy odor. It's major role in chemical solutions is to prevent freezing of water. Only god knows why women produce Pyridine in their pussy. Pyridine is the only cause for "fishy" pussies and the pussy owner has no way to decrease the percentage of Pyridine in her pussy juice. Wow!

3) Squalene: An organic compound which is oil-like. It's major role is lubrication. It has no odor.

4) Carbamide: An organic compound also to be found in urine. Mostly used as fertilizer!! Some scientists believe the role of carbamide is to extend the life cycle of the male sperms after ejaculation into her pussy. It smells a little bit like oak wood, but far less intensive.

5) Acetic acid and lactic acid: Also to be found in milk. Does not smell at all.

6) Alcohols (very little): You would need to drink 26 gallons (or 105 liters) of pussy juice in order to reach the alcoholic effect of one glass of beer. The role of the alcohol is pussy juice is to prevent the components above to separate from each other.

~None of the components above is in any way toxic or has any positive or negative effect if swallowed. The nutrition effect is low because pussy juice is very low on calories due to the absence of proteins. You would need to drink at least 35 gallons (140 liters) of pussy juice a day to avoid starvation compared to 0.3 gallons (about 1 liter) of male ejaculation.~