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>>HOW TO JUDGE A FRIENDS INVITE

Everyone here in xHamsterland receives avatar invitations from people who are not known to you in any way. Sometimes you even wonder where your path crossed theirs to elicit such an invitation. Unless you are into "peacocking" or collecting friends avatars just to have them on display, chances are that you would like to get some kind of a feel for this person contacting you before you click "yes" or "no". Life in xHamsterland starts for all of us in only one dimension...the profile. It's what we bring to that profile that adds depth, color and richness. But, if you click on an "invite avatar" and find little to no input from them on their profile page, you've got nothing to go on. Personally, speaking, I don't like to find myself in that position, nor do I want to put anyone else in it with my invitation.

No one says that you have to do a ton of stuff on your personal page space to help others get a reading on who you are, but it's good to do and say something of substance and interest. Unless anonymity is your thing, and if it is, why are you sending out friends invites in the first place. Nothing quite as weird as clicking to a profile page with a blank avatar showing and seeing a grouping of friends avatars that are also blank!

Oh well, thanks to my friend Jurgen, the "PornManiac11", I offer these superbly crafted guideline posters that he crafted on this very subject. There are always exceptions to everything and your final decision to accept or decline an invite is still going to be a guess of sorts. But, that guess can be made much more positive and hopeful with just a little help/input from your potential "friends".


I HOPE YOU ENJOY THESE SLICK LITTLE DITTIES AS MUCH AS I DO. MANY THANKS AGAIN TO JURGEN!.....Steve










Posted by SMICHAELS 3 years ago
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4 months ago
When the light is on, the door is open.
4 months ago
"Life in xHamsterland starts for all of us in only one dimension...the profile." Sas thanks you for your artwork, i want to go check your other work; it's a friends only profile. so it starts with 0 dimensions there! when it comes to you. :-(
1 year ago
Well done!
1 year ago
very useful, have tried to verify my profile, but have been unsuccesful, due to not getty the link or message to my e-mail account, and no, I do have one that is correctly given here. any info how I can get it done would be well appreciated.
Have a great weekend
curious19...
retired
1 year ago
nice and useful post :)
hk55
retired
1 year ago
I have no chances, I dislike Nina Hartley.
1 year ago
Saved in my favs. Still have to work a bit on my profile. But no, I don´t think I'm going to display a real picture of me although I agree that a Real Verified User stamp can go a long way to legitimize a profile - but even that can be faked... As a rule, every now and then I clear my list of Deleted fav videos, but only recently did I find out that some members do get pissed off when others don't do this. Thanks for the tips, stay horny.
1 year ago
Steve,

I still like coming back and looking at this. But you know, no matter how detailed one gets on their own profile about what is acceptable and what absolutely isn't, you continue to get invites from seemingly who knows where. Annoying, to say the least, when someone just clicks on your invite button for no apparent reason. You know they didn't go to the trouble of even glancing over your profile BECAUSE IT SAYS WHAT IS EXPECTED. Or even worse, if they read your profile and then they just flat ignore what you wrote.

I get between 80 and 100 of these a DAY! Only a very few have bothered to comment a pic, vid or introduce themselves on profile. I would love to see a blog on what brings people across your page... I mean what motivates them to comment or not? To invite or not. To PM or not. (I've chosen to close my PM's to friends only because of the sheer amount of garbage that would come my way from complete strangers. One word comments. Vulgar one liners. Cam 2 Cammer's.) The list is endless and always left me wondering how they came across my profile to begin with.

Sorry this was so long but I've been meaning to run it by you for a while now. Thanks for letting me vent.
Loves,
SassyBri ~
1 year ago
It speaks for itself, but many thanks anyway.
1 year ago
So that's the secret!
1 year ago
nice ahah! ☺
1 year ago
superb...shame I did not read this when I first started to get my shit together...mind you...still have not got my shit together!! Many Thanks.
1 year ago
Congrats...good job!
1 year ago
I soo going to have to favorite this.. Nice Blog!!
1 year ago
good rules of thumb
1 year ago
I agree this should be shown to every newcomer as a rule.
1 year ago
Good work!
1 year ago
Fantastic! This should be displayed for every one when they first sign up for a profile.
1 year ago
Thanks. I'm not a primo hamster as I can't provide much original content. Still I treasure lots of friends who share my extensive interests and enjoy the chats and contacts with those guys. I pride myself on keeping my favs deleted free and trying to stay updated. I can be a treasure trove for those with similar taste. I can plead guilty to accepting blank profiles, although I really try to avoid accepts for obvious spam stuff. Watch out for the sexy women on that. I do, however, have friends with no profile info, who have hot comments. Wish they would participate like I do, but we are compatible. Thanks for the info. Despite the fucking malware dangers and recent bad press, xhamster is the best fucking site around.
1 year ago
Good Blog and i agree !

It's funny and strange when you see completely empty profiles having thousands of friends - LOL

Well .. every person see life by his own point of view .. !!!
2 years ago
Good work I'm linking to it in my favorites blog.
2 years ago
very cleaver,thanks for that,and good one whit Nina
Hartley we love her
2 years ago
you serious? it's simple..
use a little judgement. If you got it wrong, defriend and block user.
You're not being asked to get married for fuck's sake!

REMEMBER THE KISS!!!

Keep It Simple Stupid!
2 years ago
very illustrative
2 years ago
Thanks
2 years ago
this is a great blog and so useful
2 years ago
I wish I had seen this blog at first registration. It's more than helpful... It is vital for any newbie learning how to navigate through the BS that's out there. Thank you for your fine contribution.

SassyBri ~
2 years ago
Excellent

and so true ...
TimmieZ
retired
2 years ago
Sweet
3 years ago
i have found that since my page has been open, got a lot less friend requests... for which im thankful was so much spam