Hardly anyone messages or comments anymore.

Before I get started here, I want to get this out of the way. Most of the people on this site are not really the target of this particular rant, but the few that are piss me off enough to have to say something.

I see a lot videos and pic sets titled things like, "Stupid Fat Bitch gets her ass pounded," and some other things far worse then that. Where is that kind of anger coming from? I'm a firm believer that porn is not inherently degrading, and that the majority of what people like to see is not the vicious, woman-hating variety that pops up now and then. To this community's credit, often when someone posts something with a title like above, most of the commenters seem to take them to task for it. I honestly don't get where the need to spew this kind of hate comes from. It bothers me to see depictions of r**e, v******e toward women, and degradation, but many seem not only fine with it, but seem to prefer it.

On that note, I am also bothered quite a bit by the bullshit Brazzers adds that sometimes appear along side pics and vids on here. They often depict women being slapped, choked, and tormented. I know it's all staged and not real, but that doesn't really make it any better. It's still pandering to a really ugly side of porn.

Am I off base here? It's not my intention to bash porn at all; I love hardcore porn, otherwise I wouldn't be here at all. I also am not an advocate of trying to tame or tone down porn; I think crap like Candida Royalle is boring as hell. I'm not saying that people shouldn't be allowed to name their videos any damn thing they want or that Brazzers shouldn't be allowed to advertise. I'm just honestly curious where this attitude comes from, and why it seems so prevalent.

I've seen a lot of blogs and profiles on here bitching about other members of this site (including my own last blog about handsonjob), and I thought it would be cool to do something a little more positive. In fact, it's the opposite of all the bitch-fests. I want to celebrate all the best people that I've met on here, or that I know from other places who have joined. I'll be adding more as I go, so if you don't see yourself on this list yet, hang in there.

kiki78- My wife and best friend. Beautiful and so sexy!
rubyred14- One of my best friends, and an incredibly hot woman!
JenofdaJungle- Another amazing friend I know from outside xHamster. Incredibly sexy and talented.
mandy_skye- Total sweetheart and another amazing and sexy friend
untamedfox- One of my best friends, and one of the only people that I've become friends with from here outside xHamster
MadBlanket- Gorgeous woman who posts amazing videos, and takes the time to respond to all of her many fans!
greatwifey- A hot couple with some Unbelievably hot handjob vids
eomersgrl- Incredibly hot woman who is also very friendly and sweet!
la_gordita_bonita- Sweet woman with a personality as gorgeous as her sexy body!
MsArmageddon- Gorgeous, sexy, and an absolute sweetheart!
lovejeans1- Big shooter with some of the hottest and most creative vids I've ever seen
iCum4You- Another big shooter and helluva nice guy
cumwatcher- Very sexy and very horny woman :)
chef381- Nice couple and outstanding uploaders
ladienleather- Very hot and very nice as well. The only xHamster user I've done a tribute for.
hazeleyes- Beautiful and always leaves the nicest comments
rainwoman- Great friend, and very sexy squirter
cumsquirter- Sexy TS friend who posts hot stories
WombDweller- Very helpful user who posts amazing vintage photos

Awwwww... Did I hurt your poor widdle feewings? You can sure dish it out, but you can't take it you whiny little fucking crybaby. I was going to post this on your profile, but you blocked me. You. Fucking. Blocked. ME! That's hysterical with what you have on your "profile." Your hypocrisy knows no bounds apparently. How's it feel to be the poster boy for the "cowardice of anonymity?"

For anyone who doesn't know who I'm talking about, it's this asshole: handsonjob. Chances are, he's probably left some shitty comment on something that you posted.

I just wanted to put this out there. I'm not here to collect friends. If I sent you a request, it's because I found something about your profile sexy and/or interesting. I actually want to know more about you and maybe chat.

I understand that people are busy, and that women on sites like this get swamped with messages and add request from guys. That's not really what I'm talking about. If I add you, and you have no intention of talking to me, then why did you accept the request?

The other side of this is people who send me requests and never say a word or comment on any of my pics or vids. Why did you add me if you have seemingly no interest in being my friend?

I've done this a couple times already, and will once again go through my friend list and delete people who never talk. If you want to be my friend, I'm totally cool with that; I'd just like to hear from you now and then.

I'm probably going to start being a little more selective with who I accept add requests from as well. If you have no avatar, and no pics or vids, chances are I won't add you unless you also send me a message. Also, if you never comment on anything I probably won't add you either.

It sounds like I'm whining a lot, and I don't really mean to. I honestly love this site more than any other adult social networking site, just because the community here is far better than most. That, and all the great porn.

Erik :)

I made a lot of these from older videos, some of which I don't even have the original video of anymore. I hope you like! :)

Cumming at you in 3D ;)


Back in black


showing my cock and balls as I cum hard


Some late night fun


Blasted way over my head in this one


Virtual facial from me ;)


Fireworks!


Another "3D" clip


My avatar pic here


Yikes- check out the short hair!

I'd like to hear what people think about this. I've seen a lot of people complain on here about all of the guys with dick pics for their avatars, and I get where they're coming from. I'm not bothered by guys with their dicks as their profile pic, but it can be a little awkward having a conversation with another guy's penis. The only real difference with mine is that it's an animation from one of my videos, but it's still of my cock.

So, for the people that I'm friends with and talk to on here, and the people I may talk to in the future, what do you think? Should I change the pic?

Just an observation here, but I'd bet that somewhere in the ballpark of 90% of the female profiles claiming to be bi are actually men. The giveaway usually is how vocal they are about their lack of interest in (or seemingly hatred of) men.

It usually goes something like this: "I'm bi and I'm only here for girls, so guys fuck off!"

Really.

It's one thing if a woman is married, and wanting to play with women online. I have a few friends on here, and on other sites that are in that exact situation. Every one of them is completely cool, and pretty open to talking to anyone. I also have lesbian friends here and on other sites as well, and none of them are man-haters at all.

The other giveaway is that the pics posted by these women are nearly always completely recognizable models, or suspiciously professional looking pics.

What the hell is the point of creating a fake profile, and getting praise for a bunch of images that aren't of you? I'll seriously never understand that.

The last video I put up, titled Target Practice was something I wanted to do to try and be more creative and have a little more fun with the videos I make. I'd love to hear some more ideas for new videos.

What would you like to see? If it's something I can do with my camcorder, I'd love to do it (excepting of course, anything i*****l or disgusting)

Let me know!

Erik :)

I joined this site just a couple months ago, and really love it so far. People have been really cool about actually socializing on a social network site (unlike far too many sites out there), and I've gotten quite a bit of attention for the pics and videos I've posted of myself. I really love that! It's really cool to know people think that you're hot and they like seeing you. I completely get that. The things I post are all 100% me, which makes it really feel good when people compliment me.

What I don't understand at all are the people who post things that are clearly not them, and either outright claim that they are, or do nothing to discourage people from thinking that they are. What pleasure is there in getting praise for pictures or videos that aren't of you? Can anyone explain that for me?

One person on here with a female profile posted an album with five pictures that she claimed were her. They are all clearly from the site hotwiferio.com. Each one of the pics has 40+ comments of men drooling over the pics, everyone of them going on the assumption that the account owner is actually the one in the photos. I commented on each picture simply with the url for Rio. My comments were deleted, and the user put this up as her status:

"Way too many hurtful people on this site! Why can't you just have some fun? "

In what way were my actions hurtful? If anything, it's hurtful to deceive people into lusting after someone whom they think is you. The owner for that profile could be anyone, of any gender, any age, build, etc. It's dishonest, self-centered, and even a little cruel to toy with people like that.

What does everyone else think? Am I off base here? Should I really just let people enjoy their little masquerade on here, or am I right to try and "out" the fakes?