I've noticed a lot of users have retired posters on their friends list. This is an explanation how you can remove them from your friends list.

First off. Go into the Dating tab in the site navigation. Select My Friends. From there you can easily check off unwanted users and remove them by hitting the defriend button below your list. You can also choose to defriend all retired user without checking them off by using the button next to the other at the bottom of the list.

That's pretty much it. Simple, huh? By clearing unwanted users from your list, you can make from for new members who are active and tolerable.