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Blowjob Advice

A blowjob can be a great experience for both me (the giver) and you (the receiver) but there are some do's and don'ts when it comes to the ultimate kiss. I gave a guy a bj just the other day and he definately had some mixed-up expectations and poor training when a girl goes down.

1. Don't grab my head: There is a big difference between pounding my pussy and pounding my mouth. My pussy doesn't have a gag reflex. I've seen vidoes where the girl is able to take an 8" dick all the way down her throat, but that is the exception, not the norm. So until you know the depths of her throat, I would advise you to just relax and enjoy and keep your hands off.

2. Cum in the mouth: This is a sticky subject (pun intended). I have some girlfriends that don't mind swallowing and others that do. I fall into the latter. One girlfriend told me that once a guy came in her mouth without warning and she threw-up all over his lap. Buyer beware!

So how do you know her preferences? Of course it would be an awkward moment at dinner if you ask "Do you swallow?" Maybe she does, but I doubt you'll ever find out first hand. My advice is when faced with this dilemma just let her know that you're cumming. Most of the time we can tell anyway (your body stiffens, the head of your dick swells, and you stop breathing), but be a gentleman and let us know. Now the ball is in our court. We'll either take it or send it elsewhere.

3. Enjoy the moment: Just like keeping your hands off my head, keep your hands to yourself. I don't need my nipples, pussy, or asshole played with while I suck you. My pleasure comes from what my mouth and tongue is doing to your cock. I swear, the next guy I blow is going to have his hands tied behind his back.

4. Return the favor: Most women I know like to have their pussies licked so after you're done, it's my turn.
Posted by Cheryl4516 3 years ago
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7 months ago
Excellent advice, especially 2 and 4. I think men learn 2 pretty quickly, but any young or inexperience men should pay attention. Honestly I prefer to give first. I would like to see a sex poll (are you paying attention Census Canada and the equivalent in other countries, here is an important add)asking how many times an average male has been given a bj and not reciprocated. Then I would like to see the comparative numbers for women.
8 months ago
If she doesn't swallow, there's no second date.
1 year ago
then dont start something you cant finish, darling
3 years ago
I've never understood a woman that doesn't swallow. I've also never understood oral without sex.
3 years ago
great advice,
3 years ago
you are a very wise young woman. I love know what goes through a womans mind while sucking a dick. Thank you for enlightening me
3 years ago
I am waiting for you to tie my hands behind my back!
3 years ago
Yes, please let me lick your pussy!
3 years ago
Cheryl´s clearly right! That´s one thing.

2nd: I also prefer the other order of moves:
A great girl coming in my mouth is such a turn-on!
So much easier for her to raise my attention next.
What we´ll do with that, is another open question!
3 years ago
Sound advise, I prefer to eat out the woman first giving my complete attention to the job at hand...er mouth. Then it is up to you whether I deserve the blowjob/ handjob in return.