I'm a wierdo. I'm 21 now and fairly fit, but younger I was not fit at all. I've had low self esteem for a long time, and not being fit, I was not privy to normal sexual interaction, and developed most of my sexual personality through pornography.
Anyway low self esteem from not being physically attractive, and several poor experiences with women kinda fucked me up. so naturally I've drifted towards being kinda submissive and masochistic. My personality has a heavy duality, probably from projecting a false image so much. but ultimately I'm a pretty decent person and sexually open, but I get bored with vanilla really quickly, be it in personality or sexuality. so if I somehow pique and interest from you your best bet is to be understanding, not too normal, and be a human. the only thing I really can't stand is poor/simple/or overly corrupted programming.
Also I maintain a level of masculinity because its called for to have any degree of success in society, but I naturally have a more feminine personality, but feminine in more the esoteric sense (moon/sun, yin/yang) not some garbage mainstream media sense of what is feminine.