I am a black man who has struggled with weight. And, white women in general have always been much kinder to me. I've even slept with professional, slim white women (two lawyers and one pharmacist). And, because of my weight struggles, I will NEVER reject even a fat white woman, because I know what it's like to have weight struggles and I know how harsh black women, of all sizes, can be on overweight black men.
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