Get a hold of her cell phone. See if you can down load the videos. If the phone has a SIM card, the videos should be on it, even if she deleted them. See if you can figure out who she's sending the videos to. The videos may be stored by your service provided for a period of time.
Yeah cuz cell phones totally existed in 1980! Son of a bitch... So the entire time in the early 90's I was using a pager, this bitch had a flip phone! GTFO! Def. earns a, Come on man... lol!